I genuinely don’t know how to handle this

My boyfriend and I broke up yesterday. We have known each other for the past 7 years, most of which we have been dating. We had some issues with finding a place to stay, while waiting for our apartment to be ready, so I offered to stay at a family friends until it was ready. We had only been there for 2 nights until I was in a room with my family’s friend, and he had pulled his pants down and exposed himself to me and would not stop. That already fucked with me because not only could we not stay at my parents, we also couldn’t stay at my boyfriends parents so this was the last resort. I was not raped but that was close enough. My boyfriend was in the other room and I eventually walked out and went to him and didn’t know what to say. I was in shock. Anyway, the next day, I told him that we needed to leave and he could go to his parents and I would go to mine. I told him the reason was bc i was under so much stress that I seemed to be losing weight. He said okay but it seemed to stress him that we had to leave there. This was yesterday, and we ended up having a huge argument due to it. Little did he know, I was trying to still process being sexually assaulted. Fast forward to today, I thought he just needed some time to cool off. He still hasn’t talked to me, so I decided to sign into his Snapchat. He had reached out to so many girls. INCLUDING his half sister, FOR NUDE PHOTOS. Her response proved that she has already sent this to him before. I screenshotted what I could. He had also asked his FULL sister. I really don’t know what to do or what is stopping me from driving there and busting out all his windows, slashing his tires, and telling his dad. I am 22 f he’s 23 m. The half sister is 19.

Submitted December 14, 2021 at 02:14AM

My boyfriend and I broke up yesterday. We have known each other for the past 7 years, most of which we have been dating. We had some issues with finding a place to stay, while waiting for our apartment to be ready, so I offered to stay at a family friends until it was ready. We had only been there for 2 nights until I was in a room with my family’s friend, and he had pulled his pants down and exposed himself to me and would not stop. That already fucked with me because not only could we not stay at my parents, we also couldn’t stay at my boyfriends parents so this was the last resort. I was not raped but that was close enough. My boyfriend was in the other room and I eventually walked out and went to him and didn’t know what to say. I was in shock. Anyway, the next day, I told him that we needed to leave and he could go to his parents and I would go to mine. I told him the reason was bc i was under so much stress that I seemed to be losing weight. He said okay but it seemed to stress him that we had to leave there. This was yesterday, and we ended up having a huge argument due to it. Little did he know, I was trying to still process being sexually assaulted. Fast forward to today, I thought he just needed some time to cool off. He still hasn’t talked to me, so I decided to sign into his Snapchat. He had reached out to so many girls. INCLUDING his half sister, FOR NUDE PHOTOS. Her response proved that she has already sent this to him before. I screenshotted what I could. He had also asked his FULL sister. I really don’t know what to do or what is stopping me from driving there and busting out all his windows, slashing his tires, and telling his dad. I am 22 f he’s 23 m. The half sister is 19.