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help! I dread going on dinner dates

I 24F met a guy 21M a few weeks ago and we've been on 2 group dates. He wants to do a one on one dinner date and idk why but the thought of that brings on major stress and makes me feel uncomfortable. I know I have some dating anxiety and usually prefer to do activities like hikes or walks for dates. Plus it's so awkward at the end having to offer to split but feeling like he should pay. Any advice? I could recommend another activity but I feel like it's rude if he came up with the idea and invited me. Dating should be fun but the thought of a formal dinner date scares me 🥲 Submitted September 08, 2022 at 02:16AM I 24F met a guy 21M a few weeks ago and we've been on 2 group dates. He wants to do a one on one dinner date and idk why but the thought of that brings on major stress and makes me feel uncomfortable. I know I have some dating anxiety and usually prefer to do activities like hikes or walks for dates. Plus it's so awkward at the end having to offer t...

/u/F3ltrix on Alastor and Representation

Husk is canonically pan, but other than that, I agree. The shipping community in the HH fandom can be particularly problematic. For a while, Angel Dust and Vaggie was pretty popular even though he's gay and she's a lesbian. September 08, 2022 at 01:26AM

Advice please!: Friend/roommate knows I have a crush on him and now we don’t talk anymore

TLDR: friend who I have a crush on is now my roommate and I can barely function around him Kind of a long story but here goes: I (19F) met one of my roommates (19M) at the start of first year university last year, and I pretty much liked him immediately. He lived down the hall from me and would often hang out in my apartment with mutual friends, and sometimes when it was just me. I didn’t want to make it obvious how I felt because I didn’t want to scare him away, and i guess it worked because we became friends. He would actively invite me to hang out both in groups and sometimes just us. He treated me like he genuinely liked having me around, and even told me that he liked talking to me. We had a lot of classes together and would usually walk to them together, study together, etc, and I’d say that overall I was pretty comfortable around him. At the time he didn’t seem like he suspected I had any feelings toward him besides platonic, but basically everyone in our immediate circle had ...

Tips on talking with a quiet and anxious guy?

Hi! I’m 28F and I recently met a guy who is a bit older than me on a dating app. He is really sweet and nice and I really like him so far, but he’s very quiet and anxious and sometimes it’s difficult to get a conversation started. Once the conversation does get started, he becomes more chatty. He’s responsive to all my questions and is putting an effort, but I wanted to know some tips that might make it easier/more comfortable for him to have conversations? We only talk on text as of now because he lives far away atm, so that makes it a bit harder as well! Submitted September 08, 2022 at 12:11AM Hi! I’m 28F and I recently met a guy who is a bit older than me on a dating app. He is really sweet and nice and I really like him so far, but he’s very quiet and anxious and sometimes it’s difficult to get a conversation started. Once the conversation does get started, he becomes more chatty. He’s responsive to all my questions and is putting an effort, but I wanted to know some tips th...

/u/Rhundan on My wife of ten years told me she's asexual, please help

She may or may not have desire for you, by your use of the word (though keep in mind that asexual as a term includes those who feel only little sexual attraction) but that does not mean she hasn't looked on you with love. It may be my own aceness, but I think the latter is more important. :) September 07, 2022 at 11:29PM