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Worried about getting someone pregnant

Here is the situation: While I was taking a bath I ejaculated and my sperm fell on the shower head. Afterwards I cleaned it with a towel. About half an hour later my sister took a bath and now I'm worried if she will get pregnant. Please tell me I'm worrying for nothing and I'm just paranoid... Submitted January 02, 2021 at 12:21AM Here is the situation: While I was taking a bath I ejaculated and my sperm fell on the shower head. Afterwards I cleaned it with a towel. About half an hour later my sister took a bath and now I'm worried if she will get pregnant. Please tell me I'm worrying for nothing and I'm just paranoid...

Can I start lactating if he "nurse" on my breasts?

Can I start lactating if he "nurse" on my breast? And also, why is it that men like to "nurse" on a females breast during sex? What is arousing with it? Men seem to enjoy it alot and one man even got a orgasm just from sucking on my breasts! Submitted January 02, 2021 at 12:21AM Can I start lactating if he "nurse" on my breast?And also, why is it that men like to "nurse" on a females breast during sex? What is arousing with it? Men seem to enjoy it alot and one man even got a orgasm just from sucking on my breasts!

Any tips to making a girl squirt? Is it better than a regular orgasm?

I’m looking for any advice on making my girlfriend squirt. She says that one guy has made her squirt, and he did it three times. So it’s definitely something she is capable of, and I want to make it happen. So any advice on that? And is it better than a regular orgasm? Submitted January 02, 2021 at 12:23AM I’m looking for any advice on making my girlfriend squirt. She says that one guy has made her squirt, and he did it three times. So it’s definitely something she is capable of, and I want to make it happen. So any advice on that?And is it better than a regular orgasm?

Bathroom sex and a possibly bruised spine

I’m sorry if this is posted in the wrong place. It’s my first time posting. Yesterday on nye I had sex with my friend, very drunk pressed up against; and on, the bathroom counter. Now my spine hurts a lot it feels bruised along most of it but doesn’t look bruised. It’s just a little red but super uncomfortable. I tried to go on a run today but the bouncing motion was too painful. Anyone experienced this? Is it something I should be concerned about or will it be fine and go away on it’s own? Submitted January 02, 2021 at 12:28AM I’m sorry if this is posted in the wrong place. It’s my first time posting. Yesterday on nye I had sex with my friend, very drunk pressed up against; and on, the bathroom counter. Now my spine hurts a lot it feels bruised along most of it but doesn’t look bruised. It’s just a little red but super uncomfortable. I tried to go on a run today but the bouncing motion was too painful. Anyone experienced this? Is it something I should be concerned about or will...

Rash on mouth, nose and just in general face after performing cunnilingus

Hi r/sex ! I really enjoy cunnulingus, but my face breaks out every time I do it. I have really sensitive skin, to the point where I sometimes get rashes just from casual making out, but it's especially bad when it comes to cunnulingus. My face (generally the area around the mouth stretching to the point my cheeks start and also on my noise) gets red and irritated for days afterwards and once it formed a scab on my nose. I'm not sure if I'm doing something wrong? My girlfriend is never really "fully shaved", it's almost always at the point where it's started just growing out, so I'm not sure whether that might be a factor, not that it bothers me. However, I'm pretty sure that's not the problem. Last time (last night) I tried to do it with no contact from my nose at all, just to see if it helped, but the area on my nose still got irritated. Is it because I don't wash it off my face right after? We usually just go straight back to making ...

I can’t do Vaginal penetration? Help?

(for context I’m a bi trans man) I have a lot of anxiety about being penetrated in the front because I feel like my body won’t allow it. I have tried doing it before and have only succeeded once with a yoni egg but all other times I’ve tried my body closes up or spits it out, I don’t know if it’s mental though because I have no problem with anal. Help?? Submitted January 02, 2021 at 12:32AM (for context I’m a bi trans man) I have a lot of anxiety about being penetrated in the front because I feel like my body won’t allow it. I have tried doing it before and have only succeeded once with a yoni egg but all other times I’ve tried my body closes up or spits it out, I don’t know if it’s mental though because I have no problem with anal. Help??

Am i on the right (G) spot or just putting pressure on her blather?

So on me and my girlfriends journey to squirting we’re just not really sure if were on t right (G) spot or just putting pressure on her blather. Is there an easy way go know the difference? All those anatomy pics are all different and look out of place since the pubic bone often is way more up then in real life... all kind of g spot tips are also welcome Submitted January 02, 2021 at 12:37AM So on me and my girlfriends journey to squirting we’re just not really sure if were on t right (G) spot or just putting pressure on her blather. Is there an easy way go know the difference? All those anatomy pics are all different and look out of place since the pubic bone often is way more up then in real life... all kind of g spot tips are also welcome

Tips on how to accept what you thought was a connection when it obviously wasn’t. Am I delusional? I (37f) am interested in a (30m) but don’t know If I should throw in-the towel?

I’m an artist, and I had the opportunity to sell some of my art at a local bazaar. (Boston) Anyway, a man came into my shop, bought some art and as I gift wrapped it, we had a really long and a great conversation about art and life and so many other things. I reckon we talked for over an hour, it was just so easy and fun and ebullient. We came upon the fact that we have a lot in common and just seemed to have this connection or at least I thought so. I even asked him if he was buying gifts for his girlfriend and he shook his head quickly and said no. He just graduated with his masters degree from a college in Maine and I’m a fairly successful artist in Boston and he told me that he had just moved back to the area and despite being an artist, he was working in construction. After talking, we realized that we both had working studios in the same large Mill building and was excited because I wanted to see him again but decided to not take the first step and wait for him to. I gave him...

How to forget your fwb?

Soo I just ended a FWB relationship because I started to have feelings for him and we are in the situation where a long term relationship is not possible and I don’t think he has the same feelings for me. I have never done this type of relationship before (I only had long-term relationships) and it turns out at the end that it does not fit me. I kinda miss him. What should I do to overcome this? I normally do pole dancing in my freetime but now due to corona restriction my dance studio is closed so I have a lot of free time on my hand for my mind to wander 🙈 Submitted January 01, 2021 at 11:26PM Soo I just ended a FWB relationship because I started to have feelings for him and we are in the situation where a long term relationship is not possible and I don’t think he has the same feelings for me.I have never done this type of relationship before (I only had long-term relationships) and it turns out at the end that it does not fit me.I kinda miss him. What should I do to over...

Alone and single in a foreign country, will i always be like this?(support/advice please)

A throwaway account(cuz embarassing). I bring this to reddit because i have no one to talk to lately. My close friends i can talk to about this stuff have all been too busy to talk to me much and most of my family ignored me this holiday as well. i even saw on Facebook they spent it all together at my moms house but no one even thought to video, call, or even text me. I(27f) needed to vent this out because of how lonely my holiday season has been and it just put me in a place where i really just wish a had an SO. I'm a western woman in asia. Tall, thick, and dark skinned. I've never had a real boyfriend (i don't consider my highschool boyfriend real because more or less it was forced on me) i probably have more finger than I've had dates, and my love life is just an underdeveloped mess from childhood trauma and family issues that i internalized in a not good way. I would say i love myself and most days i pass a mirror i usually see someone beautiful, but I'm ove...

How do you know?

Been dating this guy for couple of days now..first day we buy food and went for a walk next date we hung out at his place (also cuddle and kissing nothing sexual) Hes 38(divorce for 3 years and two kids) and im 26 he looking for something serious. He over complimen of how beautiful i am and says how much fun he had with me and that he feel comfortable around me and i mach his vibe. and text me he missing me(i think that's too early and suspicious of him to say because he doesn't really know me yet) and look me alot at my faces/eyes.. my question is what to look for that he may manipulate and play me into thinking that he is serious when he actually looking for something casual? Submitted January 01, 2021 at 11:34PM Been dating this guy for couple of days now..first day we buy food and went for a walk next date we hung out at his place (also cuddle and kissing nothing sexual) Hes 38(divorce for 3 years and two kids) and im 26 he looking for something serious. He over comp...

Was I honestly in the wrong here...?

I'm 22 and been in the Air Force for 3+ years now, been through horrible relationships (got cheated on twice, suffer from depression now also), and was wanting to save my virginity until marriage, but lost it to one of the girls who cheated on me... ​ Fast forward 8 months later I run into one of the hottest girls I've seen/met at the gym. Find out she just graduated from the University I am attending (She's 23), and was still around to weigh her career options: She's either moving up North or staying about 1 hr away. In addition, I am getting deployed in about 3 months + heading to training in two weeks to Vegas for 3 weeks... Anyways, she honestly is an incredible girl (She is a virgin, but we did oral). Great family (was in private school her entire life), competed in big pageants, and has great network... With all of this, I felt like I really had something. ​ So within 2 weeks I was asking her to take couples pics just to send to my family (she was VERY hesita...

Men, stop caring so much about getting girls! If getting girls is your biggest worry in life, then you have much bigger problems!

You can’t expect a girl to like you if you don’t offer value to her. It’s the same as if you are looking for a girlfriend, you certainly wouldn’t want the lazy ones, the needy ones, the uninteresting ones, etc. When you are dating a woman, there aren’t a perfect set of words that will make her fall in love. She must see that you are a masculine man that will bring value to her life, so create an exciting life for yourself and let her join if she is worthy. A girl will fall in love with you because of who you are and not what you say. If you are a true alpha, you wouldn’t have to worry about getting girls to like you. You will have girls fighting for your attention, because good men are hard to find. Before you think you’re too ugly or poor, think about what you have to offer as a man. Do you have an exciting life, are you a good communicator, do you have hobbies, are you passionate about something... If you place the girl as a high priority in your life when she hasn’t earned it, th...

Female that cant find male FWB, help.

I’m female (24) and can’t find a hookup (guys). You always hear about how it must be so easy for girls to get a hookup, but for me, it isn't. I think that I’m relatively pretty, not like a model, but I’d say objectively at least average if not a little above. And it’s not that I don’t get people that like me, I have 100s of people that "like" me across multiple dating apps, and I have a lot of matches too. Some conversations fizzle out faster than others, obviously. And some conversations I can't really even start since otherwise there'd be too many matches to talk to and that has overwhelmed me in the past so I'm trying to avoid that now. But for me, I want a FWB, emphasis on the “F” part. I don’t care about being actual friends with someone, just someone who is AT LEAST an acquaintance with me, meaning we share at least a small amount of similar interests or can hold a decent conversation, at least for the very first date. Just let me talk to you on the a...

Met a recovering (?) sex addict and skeptical re:dating them

Xposted: Hi, I’d like to gain more advice to inform my situation. I met someone online (dating app) who says they are a sex addict in recovery. We haven’t met but there seems to be a connection and we’ve been getting to know one another. This person claims to be seeking a serious LTR. However, immediately after speaking, this person blocks me from texting and has blocked me on social media. I confronted this person and they said this behavior was to keep them from going overboard somehow. They will unblock me to speak and then block me again afterward. To me, this seems like the behavior of someone hiding behavior from a spouse or something, but I can see where this could be valid and don’t want to be rash. I don’t know them well or know much about addiction in general and don’t want to be unfair, but I’m dubious for my own well-being too. Any thoughts would be appreciated! Submitted January 01, 2021 at 11:48PM Xposted: Hi, I’d like to gain more advice to inform my situation....

Hooked up with my ex on NYE, do I need to tell the guy I am interested in?

I (24F) slept with my ex last night, but I am developing feelings for someone else. I’m gonna try to make this short. So I flew to my home state over the holidays and met this great guy. We hung out two times. The first time we hung out it was just friendly and we were just getting to know each other. The second time was when we both let ourselves be vulnerable and ended up connecting on a pretty deep level. We didn’t have sex but we cuddled/made out. We have a lot of chemistry and he is honestly one of the most genuine/communicative guys I’ve met. We agreed to keep in touch since I will be making frequent trips home and then eventually move back there in the summer. So right now we live in two different states across the country but I know he is really into me and so am I. We are always chatting on text or Instagram and it’s all just been really organic. Well fast forward to last night, I’m back in town where I live and decided to celebrate New Year’s Eve with some friends including ...

Need advice on how to approach a guy I'm interested in

Hello hey so i (22f) like this guy (22m), he's a friend of one of my friends but he and i never actually interacted irl. We live in different cities due to school and the chances of us meeting face to face are slim rn. I only interact with him on twitter but I've never really built up the courage to slide into his dms. He did once but the conversation died quickly. The only interaction where i expressed interest was replying to his profile picture with a youre fine as shit reaction pic and that went completely unnoticed so... He's exactly my type physically but personality wise i only know what my friend told me about him and im assuming i at least fit into his type when it comes to girls because he tweets about wanting/welling to die for/simping for big tiddy goth/alt gfs like on the daily. I also think he's bi so im not sure how interested he'd be if i hit him up. Also, I'm literally a conversations killer, for some reason im only interesting until someone...

Time to unmatch?

I (24) have been writing with this 30-year-old guy for around 2 weeks on tinder. We would exchange messages once a day and I was fine with that because I had also written like that with other guys which eventually asked me to either go on a date or at least to switch to whatsapp (where then we would write more), but this one didn't. So after a few days I asked HIM if he was interested in meeting up and he immediately responded that he thought it was really cool that I (as the woman) asked and that he certainly was interested and he asked if we wanted to meet the following week (this was on Sunday). So I asked him when he'd have time (since as a student I'm much more flexible than him I thought I'd adapt to his schedule). He didn't respond. In an effort to save face I wrote on Wednesday (3 days later!) something along the lines of "I don't have any free time this week anymore but we should look another time, have a great week!". The same day he respon...

what do i do if my crush doesn't seem too interested in me

me (16/F) and my crush (17/M) have been talking for a while now and we talk everyday. we have talked about practically everything about each other. we even send good morning/night texts and all, but lately he doesn't seem too interested in the conversation. he often sends texts like "ahahahah" after finishing talking about something and that makes me not know what to say next. and i don't know what to ask him anymore. i would appreciate if someone could give me advice and also help me with what questions to ask him to get to know him more and all. Submitted January 01, 2021 at 11:59PM me (16/F) and my crush (17/M) have been talking for a while now and we talk everyday. we have talked about practically everything about each other. we even send good morning/night texts and all, but lately he doesn't seem too interested in the conversation. he often sends texts like "ahahahah" after finishing talking about something and that makes me not know what to...

Does lust develop into love?

I was watching relationship advice videos and they were talking about lust vs love. So I started watching lust vs love videos. And I can really relate to the lust part from his side. I barely know him and he wants to have sex all the time. We also do some other things but we barely talk. It is just the beginning part of the relationship and I don't want to move too fast either. I know it's definitely not love yet. But I was wondering if you experience lust before love? And how do you make someone who is 'in lust' eventually go to love of thats possible? Submitted January 02, 2021 at 12:04AM I was watching relationship advice videos and they were talking about lust vs love. So I started watching lust vs love videos. And I can really relate to the lust part from his side.I barely know him and he wants to have sex all the time. We also do some other things but we barely talk.It is just the beginning part of the relationship and I don't want to move too fast ei...

I need help.

Looking back on last year after my break up over the summer I entered the world of dating again months later. Over the post break up dating I didn’t like any of the women I went out with and I feel so lost. I want to find someone that I’m attracted to and have in my life again. The most recent girl I was talking to had made me uncomfortable and angry, it was over a stupid reason that we stopped talking and I realize I shouldn’t have behaved that way I feel regret over the way I acted and more alone. I’m tiered of being alone, I feel depressed and angry internally with my self and life. I wish I had control over my life I feel like I’d be so much happier. Submitted January 02, 2021 at 12:11AM Looking back on last year after my break up over the summer I entered the world of dating again months later. Over the post break up dating I didn’t like any of the women I went out with and I feel so lost. I want to find someone that I’m attracted to and have in my life again. The most rece...

Would it be weird to ask out a girl that I went on a few dates with in the past again?

A few months ago I started seeing this girl and things were going really well. We talked a lot and would go out for dinner during the week and then we'd hang out every weekend and we could talk to each other for hours with no lull in the conversation and this lasted for about a month. Then things started picking up for her at work, scheduling dates got harder, and it kind of felt like she was blowing me off. In hindsight I don't think that was her intention and she was genuinely busy. Regretfully, I sent a poorly worded text to her just saying that I really liked her, but I was kind of annoyed that she cancelled on me two days in a row with such short notice. That really upset her so I apologized and she said she wasn't mad at me, but she was just really overwhelmed with everything going on in her life and she just felt confused in general. We talked here and there over the next few days and then she texted me saying that she wasn't in the right place for a relations...

Will she show up?

So, I met this girl on Facebook some months ago and it was amazing. We really felt close and she was always so sweet, but unfortunately we live in two separate countries and we couldn't meet because of COVID. After a couple if months things started settling down, as it's normal for it to be, but she also started being "contradictory" in her behaviour, sometimes extremely sweet and sometimes just stone cold. Now we can finally meet, in a few days. I will be studying in her city for the following 6 months. She says she finally wants to go on a date but she doesn't sound convinced at all. When I told her to meet me the first day I arrive she said "I suggest you first walk through the city alone... if you have to live here is better to have a first impression for yourself, we'll meet later" and then she told me she might even still be at her parents' when I arrive and she doesn't exactly know when she'll be back. I just have the feeling sh...