Hey all, So my ex (of around 4 years) left me about 3 months ago due to her being unsure that she still loved me. We didn’t have a lot of contact since then, but she had a trouble explaining why she felt that way at that moment. Fast forward to now, she messaged me a few days ago about an upcoming event with some mutual friends asking if I was going to be there. She also mentioned that it would be fun to see me if I was. I think I’m over her, but I’m not 100% sure and that’s why I haven’t decided yet to go. I’m also under the impression that she might be open to discussing trying again and I would be too. Do you think that I should attend this event? And if I do, how should I act toward her? I don’t think I should bring up anything regarding our situation and just see what she has to say if she indeed wants to talk. What do you guys/girls think? Submitted January 06, 2020 at 12:06AM Hey all,So my ex (of around 4 years) left me about 3 months ago due to her being unsure that...

I've been talking to a girl online for months, we finnaly met at my place and everything was going great until she mentioned that she didn't really see anything long term with me. This confused me because she said I was attractive so many times, said she liked me, and we ended up making out/cuddling for hours. We also have a second date set up already so I just don't get it. Submitted January 06, 2020 at 12:26AM I've been talking to a girl online for months, we finnaly met at my place and everything was going great until she mentioned that she didn't really see anything long term with me. This confused me because she said I was attractive so many times, said she liked me, and we ended up making out/cuddling for hours. We also have a second date set up already so I just don't get it.

Whenever my girlfriend and I have sex she enjoys herself, but afterwards is very sore. She tells me that it's fine but it normally means she spends the next day or so uncomfortable in that area. She also says she finds giving me blowjobs impossible but still wants to give me oral. I'm 7 inches, and I've never encountered this problem in other relationships. Is there something I, or we could do to help this problem? Submitted January 05, 2020 at 11:33PM Whenever my girlfriend and I have sex she enjoys herself, but afterwards is very sore. She tells me that it's fine but it normally means she spends the next day or so uncomfortable in that area. She also says she finds giving me blowjobs impossible but still wants to give me oral. I'm 7 inches, and I've never encountered this problem in other relationships. Is there something I, or we could do to help this problem?

My GF is on her second dose of the depo shot. She's getting off of it and I can't wait. It fucked up her sex drive so bad Im fucking dying and I hate it. She's also been on her period for 3 weeks now. Wtf. Doctor said it's rare but normal. She's got it 2x already and promised not to again. First time we didn't have sex for a month. She didn't like me at all I can feel it. Yet we would split ways and she'd write me a paragraph of how she's sorry she's been a bitch to me and that she loves me so much. Then she went back to normal. For the next 2 months the sex was amazing again. She had a higher sex drive then me her depression and mood swings went away. Then she goes and gets it again because the doctor promised her 2nd time is better. Again one month she was completely dry. Her clit was hidden wouldn't pop out. Her pussy was dead. She finally got back to normal. The great sex started again and then her period came. She bled so freaking muc...

This is a weird question I guess, but it requires a backstory. I lost my virginity when I was 15 to a guy that was 18 (my states age of consent is 16 but has a close in age exception). I had had a crush on him foreverrrr, and he was well aware of that. Anyway, he picked me up one day with the implication that we were going to hook up to some extent but I made it clear that I didn't want to have sex, but was down for other things. It sounds stupid now, and like I really should have know better but I was 15, idk. Anyways, it's been 5 years but as I remember it we were doing things together, like touching and oral etc when he starts rubbing the tip of his penis against my vulva, and in that moment I very clearly tell him that I don't want to have sex with him. He just says okay, but continues to stoke himself against me and kissing me. I tell him again that I don't want to have sex with him, because at that point it was incredibly obvious what he wanted, but I never sai...

Hi people of r/sex , I'll get into it. After 3 weeks of not masturbating due to thinking I had death grip syndrome, I have felt no difference in penis sensitivity. Ontop of this, what is really worrying is that I now lack a libido, I have a healthy diet and I take vitamin supplements which include zinc and Vitamin D however I don't seem to have the same "horniness" as I did about a month and a bit ago. I haven't watched porn or anything like it since I stopped masturbating. I have felt no need to, though I really want to. I also very highly doubt this is to do with my testosterone levels as I don't show any other symptoms. Any help would be greatly appreciated. Submitted January 05, 2020 at 11:39PM Hi people of r/sex, I'll get into it.After 3 weeks of not masturbating due to thinking I had death grip syndrome, I have felt no difference in penis sensitivity.Ontop of this, what is really worrying is that I now lack a libido, I have a healthy diet...

My wife had a bad experience giving a BJ before me and the douche came in her hair. She would never give BJs because of this and I respected that, even though I've never received a full one myself. Married 10 years now she has gone down on me, but usually just foreplay and never finishes. She says she's getting more comfortable with it, but doesn't understand why I want her to finish when we could just have sex. I'm not asking her to swallow, or even cum in her mouth, but she still doesn't want to deal with pre-cum. Of course I'm not going to force anything, but was just wondering if there were any ladies (or guys I guess) that were hesitant to give BJs but were able to get past it with any tricks or techniques? Is there something I can do? I go down on her often (I enjoy giving) so it's not like I'm asking for something one way. Submitted January 05, 2020 at 11:39PM My wife had a bad experience giving a BJ before me and the douche came in her hai...

My friends have always poked fun of me for this opinion. But the thing I enjoy most about sex is cuddling up half naked after you both finished and either watching something, talking, or just falling asleep. I know this isn’t really a “manly” thing to say, but I’m not super masculine, and was wondering if others feel the same way. Sometimes I even get horny not really for the sex. But just the feeling and cuddling afterwards. Submitted January 05, 2020 at 11:45PM My friends have always poked fun of me for this opinion. But the thing I enjoy most about sex is cuddling up half naked after you both finished and either watching something, talking, or just falling asleep. I know this isn’t really a “manly” thing to say, but I’m not super masculine, and was wondering if others feel the same way. Sometimes I even get horny not really for the sex. But just the feeling and cuddling afterwards.

I asked him what body type he prefers porn stars to have. His response was, “I don’t just watch one type. That’d be like having only pizza forever.” Now that doesn’t sound like an issue, right? However, we plan on marrying and it kind of scared/hurt me because I’m literally going to be his “pizza forever”. He always says he’ll never get bored of me, but if he would get bored looking at countless women with similar assets, why wouldn’t he get bored looking at and touching my same body after years? Anyone else been in a similar situation? Anyone have some insight? It just pops into my head sometimes and I get this dread all over again. Submitted January 05, 2020 at 11:46PM I asked him what body type he prefers porn stars to have. His response was, “I don’t just watch one type. That’d be like having only pizza forever.”Now that doesn’t sound like an issue, right? However, we plan on marrying and it kind of scared/hurt me because I’m literally going to be his “pizza forever”. He a...

I am 14yo. Sadly I am very shy (especially around girls) and pretty anxious . Can I do anything about those 2 things? Also want to ask a girl out. I am very anxious and also have a low self-esteem because of my dad. He always calls me a pussy , dumbass, retarded,idiot,sucker,hoe,hooker, but I am not any of those. I control myself very well even in stress situation and I am a very good student (one of the best in my school) Submitted January 05, 2020 at 11:49PM I am 14yo. Sadly I am very shy (especially around girls) and pretty anxious . Can I do anything about those 2 things? Also want to ask a girl out. I am very anxious and also have a low self-esteem because of my dad. He always calls me a pussy , dumbass, retarded,idiot,sucker,hoe,hooker, but I am not any of those. I control myself very well even in stress situation and I am a very good student (one of the best in my school)

I’ve started dating this girl and she’s only 5’0, definitely the petite type which is new for me. I wanna get some opinions on what some of the best positions for sex with a short, petite girl are Submitted January 05, 2020 at 11:50PM I’ve started dating this girl and she’s only 5’0, definitely the petite type which is new for me. I wanna get some opinions on what some of the best positions for sex with a short, petite girl are

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As the title says.. He’s always been the dominant one in all of his relationships but I have a feeling he’s curious about exploring a more submissive side. What can I do, as someone that’s never been a Dom, that will please him? Ie: what should I do when tying him up, or anything else? Tips tricks and full on stories or actions very much appreciated. Submitted January 05, 2020 at 11:58PM As the title says.. He’s always been the dominant one in all of his relationships but I have a feeling he’s curious about exploring a more submissive side.What can I do, as someone that’s never been a Dom, that will please him? Ie: what should I do when tying him up, or anything else? Tips tricks and full on stories or actions very much appreciated.

I lost my virginity 3 years ago and have never been able to orgasm with a partner. I’ve only done it once and that was when he was trying for an hour, he doesn’t wanna do it that long (I don’t blame him) what could the problem be? My friends orgasm every time they have sex. I feel that there’s something wrong with me Submitted January 06, 2020 at 12:02AM I lost my virginity 3 years ago and have never been able to orgasm with a partner. I’ve only done it once and that was when he was trying for an hour, he doesn’t wanna do it that long (I don’t blame him) what could the problem be? My friends orgasm every time they have sex. I feel that there’s something wrong with me

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Hello everybody. So this could be because I'm insecure. But my Gfs previous ex was more endowed than I; by a couple inches. Which isn't what worries me, but also in girth (the part that worries me). I'm worried that I won't satisfy her as well. I know I could possible still be a better sex partner by oral and foreplay. Ect. But you know hows males freak about size. I feel like she may get more aroused or visually stimulated with her previous than me and that definitely discourages me. Should I be worried about anything along those lines or shrug it off? Submitted January 06, 2020 at 12:07AM Hello everybody. So this could be because I'm insecure. But my Gfs previous ex was more endowed than I; by a couple inches. Which isn't what worries me, but also in girth (the part that worries me).I'm worried that I won't satisfy her as well. I know I could possible still be a better sex partner by oral and foreplay. Ect. But you know hows males freak about s...

Just a random thought but do women find it sexy when a man is wearing a chain necklace while having sex. Anybody have a weird fetish for things such as that? Submitted January 06, 2020 at 12:10AM Just a random thought but do women find it sexy when a man is wearing a chain necklace while having sex. Anybody have a weird fetish for things such as that?

I want to talk to women sorry for the typo Submitted January 06, 2020 at 12:11AM I want to talk to women sorry for the typo

Im 21 years old and i had my fiirst time 3 weeks ago, we had it twice on 2days which kinda sucked, i couldnt stay hard and couldnt cum, but after that my problem is rather that i am like never horny anymore, prior i was horny everyday, talking to multiple girls just to have sex or sexy pictures etc, but since 3 weeks i feel like i dont want anything sexual anymore, why is that? is that normal Submitted January 06, 2020 at 12:13AM Im 21 years old and i had my fiirst time 3 weeks ago, we had it twice on 2days which kinda sucked, i couldnt stay hard and couldnt cum, but after that my problem is rather that i am like never horny anymore, prior i was horny everyday, talking to multiple girls just to have sex or sexy pictures etc, but since 3 weeks i feel like i dont want anything sexual anymore, why is that? is that normal

Right? Like not oh it’s pop but seductive . God damn Submitted January 06, 2020 at 12:16AM Right? Like not oh it’s pop but seductive . God damn

Whenever we're playing around and i start to give him a handjob i notice that, not after a long time, his hips go wild up and down as if he is fucking. Even if i'm already going fast It's a little annoying for me because i lose my rhythm as we're not at the same phase we he starts to do this and then i'm afraid i fuck up because i know rhythm is important. Do any men have a clue why he does this? Submitted January 06, 2020 at 12:16AM Whenever we're playing around and i start to give him a handjob i notice that, not after a long time, his hips go wild up and down as if he is fucking. Even if i'm already going fastIt's a little annoying for me because i lose my rhythm as we're not at the same phase we he starts to do this and then i'm afraid i fuck up because i know rhythm is important.Do any men have a clue why he does this?

For context I’m a guy in his late twenties and I’ve been using tinder and couple other dating apps for a grand total of a year. In that time I’ve only ever met up with two people from there where was nice and they met a great whom I’m both still friends with. However despite getting a decent amount of matches (for a guy anyways) about 90% of them will never respond and if they do it never leads anywhere. Just as of last night one of my matches seemed interested and we briefly discussed what we were looking for out of tinder and seemed to be on the same page. I asked her if she liked Pho and she said, “I love it haha 😊.” So I proceeded to ask if she wanted to go out for a Pho date sometime then I got ghosted. Obviously that’s just one example but I’m just curious as to why women on there do that. Can some other guys share their experiences with dating apps? Submitted January 06, 2020 at 12:16AM For context I’m a guy in his late twenties and I’ve been using tinder and couple ...

Found out that the guy I have been dating since the end of a November possibly slept with his ex last weekend and apparently they were together the whole weekend. He kinda went radio silent for the weekend and said he was dealing with stuff. We talked about exclusivity and agreed we were. Would you stay? Am I being naive to believe him that it wasn’t anything? Am I ignoring a huge red flag? Submitted January 05, 2020 at 11:59PM Found out that the guy I have been dating since the end of a November possibly slept with his ex last weekend and apparently they were together the whole weekend. He kinda went radio silent for the weekend and said he was dealing with stuff. We talked about exclusivity and agreed we were. Would you stay? Am I being naive to believe him that it wasn’t anything? Am I ignoring a huge red flag?