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had a terrible experience with a close friend and i’m worried i’ll lose her

i’m a 19M if that matters. my friend is someone i’ve known since middle school, but we only became friends this past year after working together. i’ve had a crush on her for about 3 months but never acted because she was in a relationship and i don’t have a car. she broke up with her boyfriend over a month ago, calling me after the fact crying. i did my best to comfort her. she talked a lot about her relationship issues with me while she was dating her ex and i never knew if it was because she either trusted me enough to reveal stuff this personal or maybe liked me back a little. we’d tease each other and joke about hooking up while she was with her ex but it was nothing serious at all. she’d regularly tell me how horny she’d get after her breakup and that she was considering a hookup with someone. i didn’t want to put myself out there because i still couldn’t tell if she liked me back and she was on tinder talking to several guys, though she never met them irl. last week she facetim...

I'm 22 and have mild phimosis, sex isn't that enjoyable

So as the title says I have mild phimosis. I can retract all the way down when soft (tho I haven't been all the way down cause I'm scared it'll get stuck) but I can't retract fully when hard (it can go halfway down when hard) I use condom with GF but I'm always worried that it'll retract fully and cause damage or worse. So I've been thinking about circumsision. Is it worth it? Guys who have been cut as an adult, was sex much better than before ?? Submitted November 12, 2019 at 11:25PM So as the title says I have mild phimosis. I can retract all the way down when soft (tho I haven't been all the way down cause I'm scared it'll get stuck) but I can't retract fully when hard (it can go halfway down when hard) I use condom with GF but I'm always worried that it'll retract fully and cause damage or worse. So I've been thinking about circumsision. Is it worth it? Guys who have been cut as an adult, was sex much better than before...

Can squirt but I’ve never had an orgasm? Any advice?

Whenever I have sex or masturbate I can squirt but I’ve never had an orgasm and I’m honestly just frustrated. Does any other women have this issue or had it in the past? All advice is welcomed! Submitted November 12, 2019 at 11:29PM Whenever I have sex or masturbate I can squirt but I’ve never had an orgasm and I’m honestly just frustrated. Does any other women have this issue or had it in the past? All advice is welcomed!

What's your experience with sex while high?

I just had sex while high for the first time. Holy. Shit. I have never had such and incredible sexual experience and I can't believe I didn't try this sooner. I took an edible with my boyfriend and was probably more high than I had ever been. When he started to touch me it was like every single pleasant sensation was multiplied by ten. Usually I have a lot of difficulty orgasming with a partner even though I can get myself off easily, but it was like whatever mental block I had that was preventing me from orgasming before was eliminated because I was high. Also, my orgasams were a lot more intense and lasted a lot longer. It was easily the best sex I have ever had, and I'm wondering if other people have felt the same effects from having sex high. Submitted November 12, 2019 at 11:32PM I just had sex while high for the first time. Holy. Shit. I have never had such and incredible sexual experience and I can't believe I didn't try this sooner. I took an edible w...

Anal sex q's !!!???......how big is too big and how much is too much!! eek

ok...I will try and cut an awfully long story(no pun intended) short. I have recently(3 months ago) met the man of my dreams! yipee! We met at a training course for ballet barre teachers. He's straight...yes straight men do ballet barre!. I identify as female but i was born male so i'm mtf transgender. I have not had surgery yet but have plans to begin transitioning as soon as I can, hopefully within the next 6 months or so. I have had no experience of anal sex. I have only had one male sexual partner prior to him (the gorgeous creature that he is). So...we are in love!! totally and madly. We make out...oh boy do we make out :) but! I, and he, would like to take things a step further. I would totally love to feel him inside me. I so want to be able to do this for him, and for me. Couple of things...we have both been reading as much as we can about anal sex, read all the posts and watched the videos! Thing is I cant find info on the following. He(my gorgeous man) is big...he ...

My cum doesn't shoot as far as it used to and I start to cum before I orgasm, what can I do to help? I've been doing kegles, but can you over work them?

I started taking pygeum to increase my cum load (and holy shit it works) but I feel like I'm not cumming as hard anymore. I've been doing kegles but I'm worried I over work them. They're definitely stronger, and orgasming feels more pleasurable, but it just kind of dribbles out. It also starts coming out before I ejaculate. Is there any exercise or supplement to help? Submitted November 12, 2019 at 11:42PM I started taking pygeum to increase my cum load (and holy shit it works) but I feel like I'm not cumming as hard anymore. I've been doing kegles but I'm worried I over work them. They're definitely stronger, and orgasming feels more pleasurable, but it just kind of dribbles out. It also starts coming out before I ejaculate. Is there any exercise or supplement to help?

First time didn’t really... work

Me and my girlfriend, after almost a week of anticipation, where ready to have sex for both of our first times. It started off normally, kissing, fingering, etc. But when I tried to go in, if you will, I just couldn’t. My penis would not go into the hole and we tried like 3 times, and by the 2nd time I had started going soft. I ended up eating her out and fingering her until she finished, and she gave me head afterwards, but we were both bummed out we couldn’t figure out what to do. We’re gonna try again Saturday, and this time probably we’ll have lube. Any tips on how to make sure next time goes better? Submitted November 12, 2019 at 11:43PM Me and my girlfriend, after almost a week of anticipation, where ready to have sex for both of our first times. It started off normally, kissing, fingering, etc. But when I tried to go in, if you will, I just couldn’t. My penis would not go into the hole and we tried like 3 times, and by the 2nd time I had started going soft. I ended up eat...

When I masturbate, I dont cum.

Is this normal? I feel like I have had a few orgasms with my showerhead but have never cummed. Does this happen to a lot of people? Another question, can I hurt my clitoris by masturbating everyday? (Like 10-20 mintues) Submitted November 12, 2019 at 11:48PM Is this normal? I feel like I have had a few orgasms with my showerhead but have never cummed. Does this happen to a lot of people?Another question, can I hurt my clitoris by masturbating everyday? (Like 10-20 mintues)

I had sex two days in a row, I don’t do that often. Now my penis is sore. It feels like muscle soreness. Will it get stronger the more I do it?

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My husband started going to the gym and it's driving me crazy...

He was always a healthy weight and fit, but 4 months ago he joined a gym and goes 3 times a week. Oh. My. Lord. The abs. The chest. The shoulders. The biceps. His thighs. I can't get over how HOT I find him now he's a bit more muscular. I'm constantly horny and trying to tough him. I love how it feels when he's on top and I'm surrounded by his hard chest and strong arms. It's also made me really determined to get more in shape myself - maybe it will have the same effect on him! Has anyone else had their partner get fit and found their own sex drive increase? Or the other way round? Submitted November 12, 2019 at 11:53PM He was always a healthy weight and fit, but 4 months ago he joined a gym and goes 3 times a week.Oh. My. Lord.The abs. The chest. The shoulders. The biceps. His thighs. I can't get over how HOT I find him now he's a bit more muscular. I'm constantly horny and trying to tough him. I love how it feels when he's on top and...

Missed period while on birth control

I missed my last period and I forgot two pills in a row on the third week of my cycle. I'm almost sure I'm not pregnant cause I use condoms and I only had sex on the first day of birth control, but I'm still really anxious. I started a new pack two weeks ago and still no period. Can missed pills mess with menstruation? Submitted November 12, 2019 at 11:57PM I missed my last period and I forgot two pills in a row on the third week of my cycle. I'm almost sure I'm not pregnant cause I use condoms and I only had sex on the first day of birth control, but I'm still really anxious. I started a new pack two weeks ago and still no period. Can missed pills mess with menstruation?

Boyfriend's penis keeps coming out during cowgirl

It's really embarrassing, and I feel self consicous about my body when I go on top anyway, but my boyfriend's penis won't stay inside me when I get on top. We'll try repeatedly but by that time he won't be hard enough for me to put it in anyway. His penis is maybe 5.5"/6" at his hardest. I thought it was a problem with my vagina, or maybe I was too fat for that position/my butt was too big? I am bigger than my boyfriend, my bum is really big so we can't do spooning. We've done reverse cowgirl just fine before and he has stayed in (well I think he came out once). But every single time we do cowgirl he will slip out immediately. I'm not thrusting too high off him so idk what's happening, I'm tried just grinding but it still slips out. I've been really embarrassed and blaming myself, thinking maybe I'm just too fat for cowgirl or something. My current boyfriend said he thinks maybe I'm just leaning too far forward when I'...

My boyfriend had us (well me) try a new position last and I have no idea what its called!! Please help

Ok so me and my boyfriend tried a new position last night and I loved it! It was pretty much reverse cowgirl but instead of me on my knees (which I also love), I was on my feet supporting myself with my arms. I more specifically wanna know the name because although I loved it my muscles apparently aren't On board with what I was doing and I tired out very quickly. If possible I wanna know what the exact term for the position is so that I can track down what muscle I'm using and start working that fucker out more so I don't need a break every 2 minutes. That's not sexy at all! Submitted November 12, 2019 at 11:58PM Ok so me and my boyfriend tried a new position last night and I loved it! It was pretty much reverse cowgirl but instead of me on my knees (which I also love), I was on my feet supporting myself with my arms. I more specifically wanna know the name because although I loved it my muscles apparently aren'tOn board with what I was doing and I tired ou...

Give me some ideas

I want to spice up my partner (24 y/o M) and i’s (22 y/o F) sex life! We have done anal, Butt plugs, and he recently bought a vibrating cover for his fingers for when he goes down on me. I’m just wanting more ideas! Pretty much up to anything other than he is NOT into pegging or anything being inserted into him. Submitted November 13, 2019 at 12:02AM I want to spice up my partner (24 y/o M) and i’s (22 y/o F) sex life! We have done anal, Butt plugs, and he recently bought a vibrating cover for his fingers for when he goes down on me. I’m just wanting more ideas! Pretty much up to anything other than he is NOT into pegging or anything being inserted into him.

First time anal tips?

So I am curious about anal sex and want to try it badly but I am scared. I've looked into it before but the penis are always so big and the guys just push it in! Ignoring the fact that doing it with someone I trust is needed, what tips would the more seasoned professionals give to a first timer? I have a beaded toy (starts off as a small bead and gets bigger the deeper you go). That works from time to time, I also have a small dildo and I absolutely cannot get it to go in there! Submitted November 13, 2019 at 12:03AM So I am curious about anal sex and want to try it badly but I am scared. I've looked into it before but the penis are always so big and the guys just push it in! Ignoring the fact that doing it with someone I trust is needed, what tips would the more seasoned professionals give to a first timer? I have a beaded toy (starts off as a small bead and gets bigger the deeper you go). That works from time to time, I also have a small dildo and I absolutely cannot g...

Best toy to simulate going down on a guy?

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[TMI] I've (F21) had the weirdest orgasm experience of my life and I'm confused

Hello, I'm so sorry if this is irrelevant but I am still shook from what happened and I desperately need opinions (especially if it sounds familiar to other redditors). Okay, now let's get into the TeaMI. I am unable to orgasm from PiV (like most women) so I generally help myself with a toy to finish. My orgasms so far have been pretty standard I feel like. It feels like a wave is building up in my body all the way until it reaches an edge and then the drop comes with the sweet, sweet wave of serotonin. It's generally not messy, I'm not particularly leaky, so I'm not afraid to do it on top of the sheets. Tonight however, I have no fucking clue what happened. My whole body felt as if it was tensing, and being pulled apart. There was a massive feeling of stress throughout, but I could feel that feeling of "getting there" of being close. When I did finish however, it didn't feel like a comedown, but rather as just something snapping, and all my inner...

Who do you think discusses sex more? Men or women?

My girls and I were talking about this today. We are very open about our sexual lives and discuss it often. We find it fun to discuss sex, our partners, their...um...anatomy etc. Do you feel like it is more common for women to talk about sex with their friends or men? For instance, Im not sure how much my BF shares about our sex life with his friends. Submitted November 13, 2019 at 12:17AM My girls and I were talking about this today. We are very open about our sexual lives and discuss it often. We find it fun to discuss sex, our partners, their...um...anatomy etc. Do you feel like it is more common for women to talk about sex with their friends or men? For instance, Im not sure how much my BF shares about our sex life with his friends.

Husband angry about b-day gift, card, cake, dinner

I gave my husband of 15 years a nice barbecue grill for his big birthday. He was pissed that he had to go next door to get it. Didn't bother to look at it. Told me he thought they gave me a floor model because it was delivered assembled. Then he stashed it in the farthest corner of the garage, saying he can't use it til we move out of the city someday, or it'll get stolen. We keep separate money and have no debt, so it wasn't the expense he was upset about. Everything else irritated him, like my writing too much inside the card (wrote that he had a lot to look forward to, etc.). He never thanked me for the expensive gift, nor for the card or for cooking him his favorite meal or for baking him a cake from scratch. I'm so hurt and angry. Who acts like that toward someone they love? Submitted November 12, 2019 at 11:58PM I gave my husband of 15 years a nice barbecue grill for his big birthday. He was pissed that he had to go next door to get it. Didn't both...

/u/griffinsfreakedbean on Not sure if this has been posted here before but it feels like it belongs 💜🖤

And the thing is I'm pretty sex-neutral so I'm not even disgusted by it or anything, I'm just like "oh look another sex scene, how original /s" November 13, 2019 at 12:08AM

/u/Aldebaran_Gem on Not sure if this has been posted here before but it feels like it belongs 💜🖤

I tolerate it, but I really don't like it. November 13, 2019 at 12:06AM

/u/Aldebaran_Gem on Not sure if this has been posted here before but it feels like it belongs 💜🖤

Same here. November 13, 2019 at 12:06AM

/u/TheArmoryOne on Not sure if this has been posted here before but it feels like it belongs 💜🖤

If the sex scene has actual meaning to it and character development, then, as rare as it is, go for it. Otherwise, give me that heartwarming and/or badass shit. November 12, 2019 at 11:53PM