Anal sex q's !!!???......how big is too big and how much is too much!! eek

ok...I will try and cut an awfully long story(no pun intended) short. I have recently(3 months ago) met the man of my dreams! yipee! We met at a training course for ballet barre teachers. He's straight...yes straight men do ballet barre!. I identify as female but i was born male so i'm mtf transgender. I have not had surgery yet but have plans to begin transitioning as soon as I can, hopefully within the next 6 months or so. I have had no experience of anal sex. I have only had one male sexual partner prior to him (the gorgeous creature that he is). So...we are in love!! totally and madly.

We make out...oh boy do we make out :) but! I, and he, would like to take things a step further. I would totally love to feel him inside me. I so want to be able to do this for him, and for me.

Couple of things...we have both been reading as much as we can about anal sex, read all the posts and watched the videos! Thing is I cant find info on the following. He(my gorgeous man) is big...he has a big beautiful willy, long and thick (blush)....so (blush) how much can I put inside me? I'd like to put him all inside me...is there such a thing as too big for bum love? I'm talking a good 8 inches here. Also (blush again) Are there any dangers or problems with having alot of anal sex in terms of what it does to the receivers anal bits???(super blush)....I like to think that after i am able to submit to him it might/would happen regularly. We are both fitness freaks and reaallly don't want to do anything that will hurt of damage our bodies.

After I begin transitioning it might take up to a year before i can have vaginal sex and that includes surgery of course. Good news is hopefully I can have my pussy tailor made for his size....I hope.

I'd really appreciate any friendly advice. Will probably visit a sympathetic GP too but nothing like direct experience i,ve always found. Thanks in advance.



Submitted November 12, 2019 at 11:42PM

ok...I will try and cut an awfully long story(no pun intended) short. I have recently(3 months ago) met the man of my dreams! yipee! We met at a training course for ballet barre teachers. He's straight...yes straight men do ballet barre!. I identify as female but i was born male so i'm mtf transgender. I have not had surgery yet but have plans to begin transitioning as soon as I can, hopefully within the next 6 months or so. I have had no experience of anal sex. I have only had one male sexual partner prior to him (the gorgeous creature that he is). So...we are in love!! totally and madly.We make out...oh boy do we make out :) but! I, and he, would like to take things a step further. I would totally love to feel him inside me. I so want to be able to do this for him, and for me.Couple of things...we have both been reading as much as we can about anal sex, read all the posts and watched the videos! Thing is I cant find info on the following. He(my gorgeous man) is big...he has a big beautiful willy, long and thick (blush)....so (blush) how much can I put inside me? I'd like to put him all inside me...is there such a thing as too big for bum love? I'm talking a good 8 inches here. Also (blush again) Are there any dangers or problems with having alot of anal sex in terms of what it does to the receivers anal bits???(super blush)....I like to think that after i am able to submit to him it might/would happen regularly. We are both fitness freaks and reaallly don't want to do anything that will hurt of damage our bodies.After I begin transitioning it might take up to a year before i can have vaginal sex and that includes surgery of course. Good news is hopefully I can have my pussy tailor made for his size....I hope.I'd really appreciate any friendly advice. Will probably visit a sympathetic GP too but nothing like direct experience i,ve always found. Thanks in advance.
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