So this I (19M) met this girl at my gym and spoke to her a few times. I never thought she was interested and I wasn’t particularly interested in her either so I never went for it. Well, after seeing her and making small talk like 4-5 times she asked me for my number and pretty much immediately after i gave it to her asked me out. We went on a date, and I thought it went amazingly. She seemed to have a great time, we got along really well, and I thought the hook up after went almost as well as it could’ve. She wanted to have sex, but I wasn’t able to get hard. I really wasn’t embarrassed and just told her I wasn’t feeling it. Anyway, i fingered her and presumably made her finish a few times. After getting ghosted, my first instinct was to assume she faked it, but I have no other reason to believe she did. She seemed really into it without being suspiciously/theatrically loud. she was gripping me very hard when she finished and shaking and stuff, plus she seemed eager for me to do it ag...

…yeah, I can see how a thread could eat you alive over this. I’d just like to say upfront that it’s not your fault that Kristine used your trust in her to sexually abuse both of you. The fact she did this to one of our own only makes the shitty thing she did even shittier. If you haven’t already, cut her the hell out of your lives. The fact Kristine deliberately separated you two to begin with, then ambushed you with group sex, then told you to your face that she “was only trying to strengthen your relationship” feels like pretty textbook abusive behavior. You and I don’t know what the hell happened in those private sessions, but I feel safe presuming she did something to pressure your GF into what happened next, given the circumstantial evidence. There isn’t terribly much left to do besides discuss what exactly happened in the private sessions with her, since that’s all that’s missing from the picture, and obviously try to help her how you see fit about her mental health. There’s...

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So I met this girl through friends of friends and we both live in London. We already went on 3 dates and I really vibe with her, in the past 5 years she is the best I’ve met. The issue for me is that she is most probably leaving to LA in September, she is in the middle of application and most likely will get approved. I’m also a person who gets attached very quickly and I don’t know if I should continue seeing her if she might be leaving… We had 3 amazing dates, I haven’t made a move to kiss yet because when I genuinely like the person I’m very slow with them. What should I do Reddit ?? Should I see her for 4th date maybe start getting more attached and just yolo it ? Or no point in continuing to see each other since she is leaving ?? We are both 22 years old. Submitted April 17, 2022 at 12:13AM So I met this girl through friends of friends and we both live in London. We already went on 3 dates and I really vibe with her, in the past 5 years she is the best I’ve met.The issu...

Hello. I’m at a point where I want to start dating again. Two men are sending really strong signals. I was abused, and so moving at my pace is huge for me. I am so grateful for that. One thing that keeps me reluctant is that I think their ex’s are still in the picture. How do I say I’m good - I don’t do the whole unfinished business thing. Submitted April 17, 2022 at 12:15AM Hello. I’m at a point where I want to start dating again. Two men are sending really strong signals. I was abused, and so moving at my pace is huge for me. I am so grateful for that. One thing that keeps me reluctant is that I think their ex’s are still in the picture. How do I say I’m good - I don’t do the whole unfinished business thing.

The part about the intrusive thoughts is very reassuring to hear, I occasionally feel like that since mentioning to a few people irl that I'm demi. April 16, 2022 at 11:15PM