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/u/MoonchildStardom on 28 year old male with no sexual experience. I don't want to live my life by a label, but now I'm insecure about the lack of sexual experience. Do I explain it? What can I do to fill in the gap of missing experience?

Is it something you want? Or something other people want? If you are going to do something intimate because other people expect that from you then I would reevaluate. Of course people expect it. It's quite natural. And it is extremely popular. But that doesn't mean you need to like it aswell. I guess I shouldn't assume. March 04, 2020 at 12:30AM

/u/AmericanMare on Found it on r/wholesome memes, thought it would fit here quite well :).

Istg internet friend love is very close to romantic love for me personally. Like I am not aromantic but I value my online friends like family, many of them I would happily enter a QPR with. They aren't the same type of feeling but they are equally valuable to me. March 04, 2020 at 12:30AM

/u/Aces_Up_My_Sleeve on It's always nice to put a face to a name so this is me :)

👋 March 04, 2020 at 12:29AM

/u/EkkoBandit on MRW I hit puberty and everyone else started getting interested in sex.

I didn't get how everyone was in sex until way after my puberty March 04, 2020 at 12:27AM

/u/cntfndausername on my girlfriend may be asexual, or bi, or kind of both..

okay thank you for your information anyway 🙏🏼 March 04, 2020 at 12:11AM

/u/CoffeenCinnamonToast on Found it on r/wholesome memes, thought it would fit here quite well :).

I love introvertdoodles! Too bad her name was cropped off somehow. March 04, 2020 at 12:08AM

/u/foxglovewarrior on Got my ace ring in the mail yesterday, and I love it!

would you be willing to link to the etsy store?? This is so cool! I want one! March 04, 2020 at 12:06AM

/u/fungyamongy on I find some unsexy people super pretty and nice to look at despite little sex appeal

I've always been aesthetically attracted to Steve Buscemi. come at me internet. March 04, 2020 at 12:05AM

/u/zoidbergerest on Unpopular opinion: I really don't like the term allosexual

I’ve used ‘sexuals’ and have since I found AVEN over a decade ago. I can understand a bit of the unease about that term specifically (sexuals) but I always felt it was pretty straight to the point. I haven’t fully gotten used to ‘allosexual’ but it’s usage is becoming more and more common that it’s certainly recognizable. March 04, 2020 at 12:04AM

/u/krabbstone on MRW I hit puberty and everyone else started getting interested in sex.

Cake too March 04, 2020 at 12:03AM

/u/Draconic_Milli on my girlfriend may be asexual, or bi, or kind of both..

Depends on the person- but going off of what you said it's likely. Just always make sure to ask. Even if she doesn't, you can still have a perfectly fine relationship. Sex isn't the only part, you can still have dates, kiss, cuddle, etc. Disclaimer: i am aroace and have no clue how to relationship, so my information may not be accurate March 04, 2020 at 12:02AM

/u/youhavebeautifuleyes on MRW I hit puberty and everyone else started getting interested in sex.

You can have mine, seems nice at first but I sometimes I think it's more trouble than it's worth. March 03, 2020 at 11:57PM

/u/cntfndausername on my girlfriend may be asexual, or bi, or kind of both..

thanks for your response, but if she's so, does it mean she would enjoy the sex or not ? March 03, 2020 at 11:57PM

/u/Partymonster86 on It's always nice to put a face to a name so this is me :)

Hey ambrosialeah 👋 March 03, 2020 at 11:55PM

/u/Ferret-Queen on MRW I hit puberty and everyone else started getting interested in sex.

This is art March 03, 2020 at 11:55PM

/u/ambrosialeah on It's always nice to put a face to a name so this is me :)

Howdy! March 03, 2020 at 11:55PM

/u/Partymonster86 on It's always nice to put a face to a name so this is me :)

👋 hi MalWinchester March 03, 2020 at 11:54PM

/u/Hrnek_Bezucha on I made the entire galaxy asexual, our conquest is complete

🎵 The Ace of space, the ace of space! 🎵 March 03, 2020 at 11:53PM

/u/MalWinchester on It's always nice to put a face to a name so this is me :)

waves Hi, Party Monster! March 03, 2020 at 11:51PM

/u/TheFryeTwins on Am I Asexual or only Aromantic?

That sounds very much what I'm experiencing. Very interesting, I'll look it up. Thank you! March 03, 2020 at 11:46PM

/u/Ettina on Am I Asexual or only Aromantic?

It's someone who likes sex but only if they're not a participant in it. Typically means you like fantasizing about sexual situations involving other people, but don't like to imagine yourself in those situations. March 03, 2020 at 11:44PM

Balancing the housework

First I am so happy I found this safe space. I’ve gotten great advice and ideas from here. So thank you all in advanced. I’m basically wondering how do I ask my husband to pitch in more without it sounding or without him feeling like I am criticizing what he does do. I don’t want to take away from what he contributes, however: I do get home before him, I’ll start with that. When I get home, I am doing things with him in mind. Essentially: what can I do now that will ease and de stress his home evening time? Could be get dinner started, de clutter, throw in laundry. I do accept that I could probably leave the place a mess and it wouldn’t bother him, but, sigh, I try. On the occasional times he gets home first, everything is a mess and nothing has been started and he’s on the couch eating chips watching tv. I feel sort of bummed that he doesn’t reciprocate thinking of me. Perhaps it’s my love language and I can open the conversation like that? I also want to talk about our future an...

To my beautiful husband

You believed me when I told you I wasn't mentally healthy. You believed me when everyone else said, "snap out of it". You are the reason I am still alive today and I will forever be grateful for you. My beautiful husband helped me seek help. Get help for my depression and loves me even when I can't love myself. Teamwork, love, compassion and him basically being the best human being I have ever met = a lucky girl. I will never understand what I did to deserve such love but thank you for healing and loving me. (He is also being taken care of mentally, physically and emotionally as well) Submitted March 03, 2020 at 11:24PM You believed me when I told you I wasn't mentally healthy. You believed me when everyone else said, "snap out of it". You are the reason I am still alive today and I will forever be grateful for you.My beautiful husband helped me seek help. Get help for my depression and loves me even when I can't love myself.Teamwork, love,...