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How should I approach this cute girl at work?

Hello everyone, I'm a 24 year old guy. I haven't really asked too many girls out before but I think this 23 year old girl at my work is very cute and I'd love to ask her out. I've never really talked to her but I'd like to I just don't know how to approach her. One of the problems that I'm having is she's not really on the same shift as me as she works Saturday-Monday 6am to 6pm and I work Saturday-Monday 6pm to 6am. The only times we see each other are in passing. Now, what I'd like is some advice on How I should approach her? Should I just ask her out right away or slowly kinda build up small talk then ask her out? *At my job the company is fine with coworkers dating Submitted February 27, 2020 at 11:47PM Hello everyone, I'm a 24 year old guy. I haven't really asked too many girls out before but I think this 23 year old girl at my work is very cute and I'd love to ask her out. I've never really talked to her but I'd like...

Rational decision vs. irrational brain.

Since r/deadbedrooms keeps removing with ZERO EXPLANATION... Been in the dating game for ~8 years and got very little for the effort. Maybe since a rather large part of my generation outright never wants kids or wants them "someday" (aka "when i'm 40 and my biological clock is ringing), and I do consider that a dealbreaker. Now I'm 30. What little SMV I had is down to zero, and I don't earn enough money to make up the difference. My last long-term romantic relationship admitted she doesn't want to marry me or have kids. On top of that she's been fighting illness so the last time we'd been intimate was in 2019. At this point it's time to cut my losses. Deleting my accounts on all the dating apps, throwing out my condom stash, donating the children's books I still had...the whole works. The problem is my brain doesn't want to cooperate at all . I desperately, beyond words, want not just to get laid but have a lifemate and children....

Need a guys perspective (but girls’ opinions welcome too)

My friend I’ve liked for a while asked me to get lunch Friday and his bdays this weekend too, so I thought I’d make a gesture of buying him lunch for his bday. We did meet on a dating app like 2 years ago, but it just has never gone anywhere. I don’t know whether this is actually going to be perceived as a gesture of affection or not. Any advice? Submitted February 27, 2020 at 11:57PM My friend I’ve liked for a while asked me to get lunch Friday and his bdays this weekend too, so I thought I’d make a gesture of buying him lunch for his bday. We did meet on a dating app like 2 years ago, but it just has never gone anywhere.I don’t know whether this is actually going to be perceived as a gesture of affection or not.Any advice?

How do you handle feeling mediocre when you're the only single one?

I just found out that two close friends that I haven't seen in awhile have both moved out with boyfriends while I'm still single and stuck in life. I feel kind of "less than" because I'm the oldest of them too. Submitted February 27, 2020 at 11:59PM I just found out that two close friends that I haven't seen in awhile have both moved out with boyfriends while I'm still single and stuck in life. I feel kind of "less than" because I'm the oldest of them too.

Feeling incredibly discouraged about dating

I'm a 25 year old woman. I've been ghosted more times than I can count by guys or I've always been told guys don't see me as anything more than a friend. Last year I became friends with this guy (26 m) who I started to like more and more over the period of us being friends. Mutual friends constantly hinted that he liked me, would try to get us together any chance they could, and according to two mutual friends, he has a huge crush on me. I finally told him I like him. He says he likes me too, but just wants to remain friends. I have had similar situations happen in the past. Even with guys who supposedly like me and are crushing on me, they can't see me as girlfriend material. Even the guys who I have the best chance with and I'm sure it's going to work out, it doesn't even get anywhere in the first place. I have no idea what to do. I feel like I'm going to be single forever. He was honest and upfront so I'm not upset with this guy. It's jus...

Sleeping the the owner?

So I got this series of text from the owner of my old job ( https://imgur.com/a/yZ4rZCb ) do you guys think this was an accident and even if it was how should I go about asking her if she wants to hook up because Id love to hook up with her tomorrow night. Submitted February 28, 2020 at 12:02AM So I got this series of text from the owner of my old job ( https://ift.tt/3aa7RDG ) do you guys think this was an accident and even if it was how should I go about asking her if she wants to hook up because Id love to hook up with her tomorrow night.

Annoyed by men lovebombing then ghosting.

Yesterday I posted here, but I deleted the topic as I felt I had shared too much private information. After I asked the holiday guy why he didn't respond and if he was still interested, I got a 'lot's on my mind, didn't feel like replying'. I was baffled, I asked him if that meant he had lost interest and if so, could he delete my pictures please?'. No answer. It annoys me so much, I mostly want a response on the picture thing as my interest is gone now too. I've been OLD since last March and it's driving me crazy how some guys text 24/7, go on a date, then fall silent after a few days/weeks. Or just even before meeting. One moment I'm all that, the next I'm not worthy of a reply. I wish to meet a guy who just texts at a normal pace but apparently for those I match it's all or nothing and it sets these expectations and me getting my hopes up.I've reread my comversations but there's never a turning point, suddenly it just fades and i...

Ladies: Is it a turnoff seeing/dating 30+ year old men with braces?

Edit: Just to clarify, I’m asking about metal brackets and wires. I wouldn’t even bat an eye thinking about Invisaligners. Submitted February 27, 2020 at 11:57PM Edit: Just to clarify, I’m asking about metal brackets and wires. I wouldn’t even bat an eye thinking about Invisaligners.

Boyfriend's behavior...not sure what to think or do about this...

He'll keep talking about having me come over to join him and his friend on a certain day next week. He mentioned this a couple of times and I had expressed interest. Come day of, he is radio silent. I try to call him and he didn't even call me back. Only got a email message end of the night with some random video link. I get the feeling he changed his mind about inviting me over that night and didn't want to be bothered so, didn't pick up or call me back. I feel it's ok that he wants his space but he doesn't seem to communicate it in a healthy way.... In a healthy relationship, how would a significant other have handled this situation (in my place and his)? Submitted February 27, 2020 at 11:57PM He'll keep talking about having me come over to join him and his friend on a certain day next week. He mentioned this a couple of times and I had expressed interest. Come day of, he is radio silent. I try to call him and he didn't even call me back. Only ...

So tired of everyone I like being taken

Seriously it’s so ridiculous. For the last several months I can’t get over a girl that would be perfect for me but she’s already with someone else. Everyone I run into already has kids and is in a relationship. And online dating doesn’t work at all for me. Don’t have time for that shit anyway. But it doesn’t work if I did have time. It would be nice to just fucking run into someone single, get a crush on them, then get in a relationship with them. Feel like that’s impossible these days. I hate it so much Submitted February 28, 2020 at 12:19AM Seriously it’s so ridiculous. For the last several months I can’t get over a girl that would be perfect for me but she’s already with someone else. Everyone I run into already has kids and is in a relationship. And online dating doesn’t work at all for me. Don’t have time for that shit anyway. But it doesn’t work if I did have time. It would be nice to just fucking run into someone single, get a crush on them, then get in a relationship wit...

Ok I just want to know from all the lady’s out there how many of ye have pee in the-shower

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Is my girlfriend still protected after taking her first pill coming off her period?

My girlfriend has been on birth control for one pack now (after a one month break cause fuck pharmacies) and she just started her second pack today. She uses the progestin only pill. Is she protected today? Or do we have to wait the two days (according to most sources on google) to have sex safely again? Submitted February 27, 2020 at 10:56PM My girlfriend has been on birth control for one pack now (after a one month break cause fuck pharmacies) and she just started her second pack today. She uses the progestin only pill. Is she protected today? Or do we have to wait the two days (according to most sources on google) to have sex safely again?

Helpful websites/podcasts/books for men about helping their female partners orgasm?

I am researching this more as I’ve had trouble orgasming over the past year. (Orgasms feel week and not satisfying - sometimes I can’t even tell if I’m having them. Have only been able to achieve with a vibrator the past year, and it doesn’t even help anymore). I have been researching info for myself regarding women, but having trouble finding resources designed for men and would like to suggest some to my boyfriend. Serious replies only please, thanks in advance. Submitted February 27, 2020 at 10:56PM I am researching this more as I’ve had trouble orgasming over the past year. (Orgasms feel week and not satisfying - sometimes I can’t even tell if I’m having them. Have only been able to achieve with a vibrator the past year, and it doesn’t even help anymore). I have been researching info for myself regarding women, but having trouble finding resources designed for men and would like to suggest some to my boyfriend. Serious replies only please, thanks in advance.

I don't understand how people can have sex when they're not even that attracted to each other?

You hear a lot about random guys and girls hooking up and they're not even particularly attracted to each other, they just wanna get laid. I can't seem to do that? I've tried but there will just be a point during sex when I realise; oh wait, I'm not interested in this girl at all actually and I just lose interest immediately and lose my erection. I feel like most guys would just think, oh well, sex is sex. And then get the job done? Maybe? Submitted February 27, 2020 at 10:58PM You hear a lot about random guys and girls hooking up and they're not even particularly attracted to each other, they just wanna get laid. I can't seem to do that? I've tried but there will just be a point during sex when I realise; oh wait, I'm not interested in this girl at all actually and I just lose interest immediately and lose my erection. I feel like most guys would just think, oh well, sex is sex. And then get the job done? Maybe?

Advice to make my girl friend cum?

I have tried a lot already, different ways of fongering but nothing has worked so far, does any one have any tips? Submitted February 27, 2020 at 10:59PM I have tried a lot already, different ways of fongering but nothing has worked so far, does any one have any tips?

Any males with tight pelvic floor here? How do you deal with it?

A tight pelvic floor is a condition is which... your pelvic floor is tight. It means that the muscles doen there are contracted most of the time and especially during sex. Often times this comes with a lack of sensation and pleasure during sex or even pain. Has any of you fixed this? Submitted February 27, 2020 at 11:09PM A tight pelvic floor is a condition is which... your pelvic floor is tight. It means that the muscles doen there are contracted most of the time and especially during sex. Often times this comes with a lack of sensation and pleasure during sex or even pain.Has any of you fixed this?

Opinions - Fwb kissing in public?

Pretty self explanatory, what are peoples opinions on kissing FWB in public? For example your out having a beer together. I have been doing this because we're out and I'm sexually attracted to him, but I have no feels and want to keep it that way for him, just wondering if this is weird. :) Submitted February 27, 2020 at 11:10PM Pretty self explanatory, what are peoples opinions on kissing FWB in public? For example your out having a beer together.I have been doing this because we're out and I'm sexually attracted to him, but I have no feels and want to keep it that way for him, just wondering if this is weird.:)

PLEASE LIKE ME' CREATOR JOSH THOMAS PROMISES GAY SEX IN NEW TV SERIES On Freeform and Hulu

'PLEASE LIKE ME' CREATOR JOSH THOMAS PROMISES GAY SEX IN NEW TV SERIES The Australian actor is writing and starring in the new autism-focused show 'Everything's Gonna Be Okay' 2018-12-14 Please Like Me creator Josh Thomas has promised gay sex in his new TV series Everything's Gonna Be Okay. Australian actor and comedian Josh Thomas, whose LGBT-themed show won legions of critical acclaim and a loyal cult following before wrapping in December 2016 after four seasons, is starring and writing a new show for US cable channel Freeform entitled Everything's Gonna Be Okay. ADVERTISING The upcoming comedy "revolves around Nicholas (Thomas), a typical 25-year-old still living at home with his single dad and two teenage half sisters, who is not particularly helpful in raising his siblings, one of which has autism. "However, when their dad becomes terminally ill, the girls have to cope with not only a devastating loss but also the realization that Nichol...

What is the hottest thing that I can text to my husband mid day?

I am home waiting for him and I want him to suffer at work while he has to wait to come home to me... but i am horrible at this type of thing What is one thing I can text him to catch him off guard while make him... hard Submitted February 27, 2020 at 11:13PM I am home waiting for him and I want him to suffer at work while he has to wait to come home to me... but i am horrible at this type of thingWhat is one thing I can text him to catch him off guard while make him... hard

Are women supposed to be loud during sex?

I’ve only ever slept with one girl - my current gf. We fuck all the time and and sometimes moans a little when I’m going down on her or when I’m going at it HARD lol. Anyways, you know how in porn etc. Girls usually moan a LOT, and guys like grunt and moan... well I don’t really moan or grunt, and she’s pretty quiet. I breathe heavily I guess. I get that everyone is different and sex between two people is actually a very unique one of a kind thing, but seen as I’m not so experienced, I just wanna know if it’s normal for girls to be on the quiet side and rarely moan. Submitted February 27, 2020 at 11:26PM I’ve only ever slept with one girl - my current gf. We fuck all the time and and sometimes moans a little when I’m going down on her or when I’m going at it HARD lol. Anyways, you know how in porn etc. Girls usually moan a LOT, and guys like grunt and moan... well I don’t really moan or grunt, and she’s pretty quiet. I breathe heavily I guess. I get that everyone is different an...

Problem with having sex with someone else than my ex

I’ve only had sex with one guy for like 3 years. We’re now broken up but sometimes have sex together. The only difference between him and I? He’s already fucked other girls and I’ve never had sex with anyone else. Every time I have the opportunity I panic. Am I pretty enough? Am I shaved/waxed enough? Imagine the guy doesn’t like the way I do things... everything seems so far from normalcy and it’s very awkward. Has anyone been there? Can anyone help? I am desperate. Submitted February 27, 2020 at 11:32PM I’ve only had sex with one guy for like 3 years. We’re now broken up but sometimes have sex together. The only difference between him and I? He’s already fucked other girls and I’ve never had sex with anyone else.Every time I have the opportunity I panic. Am I pretty enough? Am I shaved/waxed enough? Imagine the guy doesn’t like the way I do things... everything seems so far from normalcy and it’s very awkward.Has anyone been there? Can anyone help? I am desperate.

So I get upset with my girlfriend because she barely talks about anything.

She has only been in relationships where her opinion or pleasure didn't matter. But for me it matters quiet a lot. So whenever I ask her about stuff, she just doesn't know what to say. So I start to feel awkward about it for even asking and then it upsets me because I still don't know what she thinks about the stuff. Like there could be some fetish or kink hidden or something.. And I'm quiet the talker, about everything. I want to help her into talking more about things but I just don't know how to help her. I've tried a slow approach or whatever but it seems to always result in her just not knowing what to say.. Any insight on this? Submitted February 27, 2020 at 11:32PM She has only been in relationships where her opinion or pleasure didn't matter. But for me it matters quiet a lot. So whenever I ask her about stuff, she just doesn't know what to say. So I start to feel awkward about it for even asking and then it upsets me because I still don...

Tips on how to use handcuffs?

Just bought some handcuffs for the bedroom and I am curious on the best way for me to use them on my boyfriend and him on me ( F). Tips would be great! Submitted February 27, 2020 at 11:48PM Just bought some handcuffs for the bedroom and I am curious on the best way for me to use them on my boyfriend and him on me ( F). Tips would be great!