She's driving me fucking insane, the thing is I think I like her more than I've probably liked anyone and maybe I'm overreacting to small signs because rejection would absolutely destroy me. So I feel like I'm continuously ruining my own chances. Now that that's out of the way, she says she wants me to teach her guitar, and I asked her "do you really wanna learn or is this a ploy for us to hang out together" to which she says, why can't it both platonically 😛. I asked if she's down to hangout on Saturday she says she has time on Sunday. She invited me to her dorm on Sunday, but I don't know if I wanna go. She clearly is playing games with me but I like her so damn much I never attach myself to any girl this much but something about her when I talked to her in a party just completely messed me up. My anxiety level rises, I cannot concentrate on my work, my roommate told me to play it cool and take time when you text and that's what I'v...

I am all for standards. I think we all should have standards. But there is one thing I recently discovered. I decided to start going for it, but not going for the top girls. Because I am a realistic person I consistently go after 5/6/7 who are not that well known. Honestly, I was not sure if I would have success with this group or not but here is what I learned... A lot of girls of these ages are semi-good looking, not very smart or passionate and at the time had nothing really going for them in life. Yet, they still would not go out to even hang out as friends or try to consistently talk with me. I ran across this one girl recently who literally told me multiple times, she spends all her days at home and has one or two true friends. I thought this girl was kinda cute and interesting so I thought, "I am just gonna go for it and ask to hang out, if she is looking for friends she cannot say no, right?". She technically did not say no. Instead, she ghosted me. Many of you wil...

I’ve been using hinge for a while but curious if it’s worth trying a different app. Female btw Submitted November 06, 2021 at 01:13AM I’ve been using hinge for a while but curious if it’s worth trying a different app. Female btw

coming from a 16 year old and who thinks a lot, for me I see myself alone but not in a saddening way. just in a way of peace and acceptance of who I am and what I’m currently going through. I I’m very independent (probably a trauma response lol) so I don’t see myself getting married or having kids bc I would want to put my career first and personal success. but I hope this helped any of your questions and to ask more if you have any!! November 05, 2021 at 11:29PM

A while ago after I woke up my boyfriend told me that when I was sleeping he started fondling my boobs and was touching my butthole but realized what he was doing was wrong and stopped. I felt uncomfortable when he told me but he made it sound like it wasn’t going to happen again and I appreciated him telling me because otherwise I never would have known. But then the other day I was sleeping and I woke up to him rubbing my clit and touching my boobs and I didn’t want to get up and was shocked so I didn’t move and tried to go back to sleep. He talked about it later and was like you were awake right? And I told him I wasn’t and he lied to my face saying that he had only touched me over my clothes and for only a few seconds. I didn’t want to argue with him because if I told him I was actually awake he would probably try to say that’s why he did it but I was woken up by it. I feel violated but I don’t know if those were the only two times he’s ever done it because if he told me both ti...

My (24M) gf (24F) and I have been together over a year and everything is great. We work well together. However, over the past few months she hasn’t been open to reciprocating oral sex. She used to boast about how much she loved giving head and how good at it she was. Maybe TMI, but during BJs, she would lay down on her stomach and use the friction from the bed to turn her on, which allowed her to finish while giving a BJ. When we have sex, we always make sure to make each other finish. For her, that usually means I perform oral sex on her; for me, that usually means PIV sex. The next part is where the issue lies. For me, oral sex is a huge turn on, and I definitely don’t mind performing it on her either because it turns her on so much. Turning her on turns me on. She says that I turn her on like nobody else before, and it’s because I make an actual effort to make sure she finishes… which is great - she has told me that not many of the other guys she has been with have been great at ...

Had to move back to my country and I'm at my family home. It's hotter than where I was living and also there's way more people here. It's hard to find a moment of privacy but when I do I struggle to properly get in the zone. I got used to having long sessions by myself to properly get excited and relieve some tension rather than quick ones and now it feels like a hurdle just to get into the mood Submitted November 06, 2021 at 12:34AM Had to move back to my country and I'm at my family home. It's hotter than where I was living and also there's way more people here. It's hard to find a moment of privacy but when I do I struggle to properly get in the zone. I got used to having long sessions by myself to properly get excited and relieve some tension rather than quick ones and now it feels like a hurdle just to get into the mood

I just got my bottle of Sliquid H2O in the mail today and just dabbed some in my elbow crease to make sure it would be fine. Well I have some redness but no burning or itching. So, reaction or not really? I wasn't able to add a picture to the post to show unfortunately. Thanks in advance! Submitted November 06, 2021 at 12:35AM I just got my bottle of Sliquid H2O in the mail today and just dabbed some in my elbow crease to make sure it would be fine. Well I have some redness but no burning or itching. So, reaction or not really? I wasn't able to add a picture to the post to show unfortunately. Thanks in advance!

I've been faking it with this girl (I have deathgrip) for like a month now...every time I throw them in her trash can before she can really see I didn't come lol... Submitted November 06, 2021 at 12:35AM I've been faking it with this girl (I have deathgrip) for like a month now...every time I throw them in her trash can before she can really see I didn't come lol...

Question for the ladies out there, and I guess guys that are looking (hey I appreciate you appreciating). My question is, are gray sweatpants for others like sundresses are for us? Where it doesnt matter if you fill it out or not, it's nice to see regardless? In other words, let's say a less-than-impressivly sized guy is wearing the you-can-easily-see-my-dick pants...is it still a turn on just to see some outline, or if it's not halfway down your knee then you should probably stick with jeans? I realize the sad vanity in the question but hey, no judgment right? Its reddit..be nice, I think this is my first post ever Submitted November 06, 2021 at 12:10AM Question for the ladies out there, and I guess guys that are looking (hey I appreciate you appreciating).My question is, are gray sweatpants for others like sundresses are for us? Where it doesnt matter if you fill it out or not, it's nice to see regardless? In other words, let's say a less-than-impressivly...

Hey all! ​ I'm having a bit of trouble talking to girls. What that means is, I guess talking and hinting that I like them? I have a bunch of friends that are girls, and I feel just fine talking to them, but I don't know how to talk to girls and show interest. Submitted November 06, 2021 at 12:11AM Hey all!​I'm having a bit of trouble talking to girls. What that means is, I guess talking and hinting that I like them? I have a bunch of friends that are girls, and I feel just fine talking to them, but I don't know how to talk to girls and show interest.

Seen a girl 4 times now, starting about a month ago. Each date has been between 3-5 hours. For the first 3 it was out and about. We have made out every date from the first date. She has also been splitting every bill 50/50 so I don't think I'm being taken for a ride financially. The one I just went on tonight, we went over to her house, watched a movie, kissed, I tried to escalate but she wasn't having it. Since this is the forth time we saw each other, and she wasn't into anything above kissing, do you think she isn't attracted to me and I should move on? I get waiting but isn't 4 (and also asking me to not date other people) enough? Not really sure what it means. For the record, I wouldn't mind something serious/long term potentially as I like her, but not gna waste my time if she isn't into it. Submitted November 06, 2021 at 12:12AM Seen a girl 4 times now, starting about a month ago.Each date has been between 3-5 hours. For the first 3 it w...

I recently matched with this super smart, funny, intelligent woman, doctor, couple of years older than me. I am a 34 years old male who has prioritised his career until now. Covid has made realise being alone is no longer fun. We hit it off, chatting every day for about three weeks straight. By the fourth week I broke my hesitance and mentioned to her that I am a wheelchair user which she didn't have a problem with. She mentioned that she was married in the past. She is a widow and was married for 7 years and her husband passed away 2.5 years ago. She also mentioned that she started trying to date recently but couldn't go through with it by the third date and also suffered depression. Both of which she is trying to overcome with counselling and medication. None of which bothered me. We are all imperfect human beings at the end of the day. I felt we were off to a great start by being completely honest to each other. Soon we started video calls which were going fine until.. Sh...

I’m 6’2” 186 pounds average looking dude. It seems like I only get likes from 2s or 3s or heavy set women (200+ LBS). I just want to match with 6 & 7s. What are you guys thoughts on it? Submitted November 06, 2021 at 12:13AM I’m 6’2” 186 pounds average looking dude. It seems like I only get likes from 2s or 3s or heavy set women (200+ LBS). I just want to match with 6 & 7s. What are you guys thoughts on it?

Scary stuff November 05, 2021 at 11:23PM

The first one is the most gorgeus one but the second has all the ace colors, so its a tough choice November 05, 2021 at 11:19PM

Nahhhhh, Highfive! November 05, 2021 at 11:10PM

Ngl that got me too November 05, 2021 at 11:09PM

I have similar story. The ex-bf of mine that I was closest to previously had a gf for ten years whom I'll call Sue. He helped raise her son, who is a wonderful person. From what I understand, Sue was a fantastic partner. That relationship ended maybe five or six years before I met him. She had a serious case of psoriasis. Anyhow, the gf was a cousin of his brother's common-law wife, whom I'll call Melissa. He cheated with Melissa all ten years that he was with Sue. The reason he gave: he said he was a younger man at the time, and he thought he should be able to be with a woman with smooth skin. Melissa went back to the brother, but then moved in with my ex-bf when he and I broke up. Her daughters, his nieces, were hooked on some serious substances by then. The three of them cost him thousands of dollars. I hope he got her out of his system. November 05, 2021 at 11:08PM