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I asked this girl out on Snapchat and she read it probably within a couple seconds but still hasn't responded. I'm not sure if this is just ignoring or a glitch because it's happened a lot even while just talking to her. What should I do? Submitted July 05, 2019 at 12:12AM I asked this girl out on Snapchat and she read it probably within a couple seconds but still hasn't responded. I'm not sure if this is just ignoring or a glitch because it's happened a lot even while just talking to her. What should I do?

I work sales in a service station. She gets the same thing nearly every time. $10 fuel. Comes in, pays, leaves. Is polite with her words. I use the word obsessed because $10 fuel nearly every day why... for at least 3 weeks. I have gathered she fuels after work. But must not live far as she had a pooch in the car a few days in a row once. As a service station staff you gotta watch the customers they are under your care, duh. So I always be looking around. The first time I noticed her I was looking out the window and she looked at me for like 2 or so seconds. Perhaps waiting for her pump to be authorised. ( I do this as soon as my till notifies me anyhow so maybe there is no link here.) So anyway the first few times she arrives outside this continues like she wants to see who is working the shift. Now she arrives at the station and goes to any random pump fuels and comes inside. Since my recent employment, She has visited the station i'd say >6 or so times. Here's the...

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People of reddit, I’ve recently started talking to a girl and she’s told me she’s pregnant with someone else’s baby. We click rather well but I’m not sure how to go with it because I want to travel and see the world before I hit 30 (currently 23) what would you do in this situation? Submitted July 05, 2019 at 12:36AM People of reddit, I’ve recently started talking to a girl and she’s told me she’s pregnant with someone else’s baby. We click rather well but I’m not sure how to go with it because I want to travel and see the world before I hit 30 (currently 23) what would you do in this situation?

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That moment when you try clicking the "more" button and then realize it's a screenshot 😂 July 05, 2019 at 12:29AM

you can probably roleplay some characters as ace or aro, but I don't think there are any characters who are explicitly asexual or aromantic July 05, 2019 at 12:25AM

I have no idea what you were trying to say previously, but are you aware that it's possible to delete comments instead of edit them? Your comment gives me a "this is left blank because I don't know how to delete it" vibe. The new UI kinda confuses me, but the delete button is at least still obvious on Old Reddit July 05, 2019 at 12:22AM

So basically I fell in love with this girl a couple years ago. We met when I was on vacation with my friends a few years ago, and I got her number before we left. We text daily/weekly, and I consider her my first and only (so far) love. I sometimes saw her in person over the past few years, but only for a short time. I fell in love with her because she’s the kindest and warmest person that I’ve ever met, but I’ve often tried to stop loving her because I (F) didn’t want to be gay. However, I never was able to stop; although now I’m ok with my identity, I still think about her. I know she doesn’t feel the same way about me, which is why I want to stop thinking about her, but I can’t. I think about her all the time and I don’t know if it’s becoming obsessive. We are friends (but not super close friends), but I keep imagining a future with her — a marriage, kids, etc. I know it’s weird to be in such a one-sided relationship where I want so much and she thinks I like her only as a friend...

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So my girlfriend and I have been together for almost two years now. We have a very healthy relationship and just started living together in April. She works at a school and I’m a bartender. She has the summer off of work but is still getting income and so I took a week off of work to go on vacation with her and on the first day of the vacation, I completely shattered my left leg and ankle. I do not have a lot of money and have now lost my income for the next few months and she has been just so incredible about it all. It’s been really hard on us both, especially through two surgeries, a few nights in the hospital and I don’t have insurance. So our dream of a debt free future seems to be completely ruined because of me. Despite that she is doing everything she can to take care of me and is my rock and I’m just so grateful. I feel terrible all the time because she is having to take care of me and pay for pretty much everything we need, especially now that I’m not making any more. I ju...

Background: I was in a sorority in college, where I met the ex-friend in question (I'll call her Kate for clarity's sake). Kate and I were super close for a while (Kate was my big sister in the sorority), but our friendship went very sour and we haven't seen or spoken to each other since I graduated about five years ago. During those five years, I moved to South Korea, met someone, and got married. We lived in SK for three years before returning to the US. My husband is military, so we don't have a lot of control over where we go. We ended up at a base we didn't like, so my husband volunteered to go back to SK and try to get a different base upon returning to the US. We decided it would be better for him to go alone for a year, rather than me and our daughter go with him and potentially spend longer. When my husband left, my daughter and I moved to my hometown to be closer to my parents. This allowed me to go to a recent sorority reunion. I was excited to see frie...

I [28F] am coming to the realisation that I have very few friends. I was having a look at my Facebook 'on this day' and couldn't believe how many people I used to talk with really regularly. People I don't even remember anymore. I just finished a PhD program and am currently finishing off my contact in a job where I made zero friends over two years, because I was so stressed and depressed about how my PhD was going I just didn't have the time or energy to put in the effort. So I'm now working at a job where I have no friends, just off the back of a PhD where everyone I was close with graduated long ago and we lost touch. I was talking with a friend on the phone yesterday and asked what he was doing for his birthday. He said his friends were taking him out twice! He moved overseas 4 months ago so hasn't even known these people for that long and they already seem so close. I'm the meantime, nobody has really ever done that for me. This particular friend h...

My boyfriend is a widower and his late wife of not even a year passed away 8 months ago (they were together for a total of 5 years). BF and I dated before already a couple years ago when they took a break (cause she cheated on him). After she passed away he reached out, we reconnected and started officially dating last February. I just wanna say he’s been amazing at understanding my worries and respecting my boundaries—taking her photos down, not talking about her always, making space for me at his home. Were definitely serious, he has met my parents and I met his already. I honestly think things are going well, we are planning to move in together when September comes. However, her death anniversary is coming up on November. I initially invited him to a concert but realized I shouldnt since its exactly the day she passed away. Ive made other plans and decided to go away for holidays on that week cause I’m so worried of dealing with him grieving. When her family burried her urn a month...

Hi, 2 months ago I've met a girl at the party, but it wasn't some random chick, but friend of my brother. So we'd stated talking and stuff. After a few days I asked her out, after 4 dates we kissed for the first time and were "officialy" in a relationship. After a month and something, she was at my house and was so tired that she felt asleep (atleast that's what she told me), when she came home, she wrote me, how much am I different than the other guys before, how much she loves me and want to be with me. I felt amazing, because it's my first real relationship (I've never was in a relationship before) and I really loved her too. But there were some problems in my life. I had no money, we are poor family. So I had to find a job and couldn't find any and when I was with my gf I've always thought about it and wasn't mentally with her that much (I didn't told her about it). Fortunately I have found a job and was happy. We went to a concert...

So here's the back story. In college and in my early 20s, I was very open with my sexuality. I did threesomes, BDSM, and experimented with other women. During college, I would sometimes hook up with 3-4 guys on weekends.  Fast forward to today, I turned 26 a couple months ago and I've been dating my wonderful boyfriend for about 6 months now. He's very different from the men I hooked up with in college, he's more quiet and sensitive instead of loud and aggressive. I think it's a testament to how much I've matured that I'm willing to settle down with a guy like him.  We were having a conversation about our past a few days ago. He told me he had only had 2 sexual partners before me. This was very distressing to me and honestly a huge turn off. I told him a little bit about my past, and I saw something change in him. Ever since he's been very quiet and distant.  He also found out that I had drinks with a guy I used to hook up with in college. We didn...

My BF and I (F25) have been together for four years now, we started off really happy, fun loving and explorative but now it feels we are stale. We barely have sex, and if we do he doesn't often finish, he just rolls over and turns out the light and falls asleep. But for the past two years he's never allowed me to touch his phone. He won't let me use it to change the song if he's driving in the car, he'll do it himself. He takes it into the bathroom with him just to pee. I've NEVER gone through it, I've never threatened to go through it, it's never been something he should be worried about me doing it. But the more he's being protective of it, the more I'm suspicious. He says he's protective of it because he's scarred from High School days of people posting silly status', but just typing that out it sounds like the dumbest lie. I've brought it up a few times, saying it's making me uncomfortable that he's so untrusting. H...

Last night I was at pool party with a bunch of friends having a good time and a situation came up that made me feel awkward at the time and has had me feeling horrible ever since. Many of my friends tend to be very close to one another, not seeming to be worried to be affectionate with each other. Most of them are other women, and many of them are bisexual. They seem to be comfortable being close and such, but I've always been a little annoyed and left out because that affection never seems to be shown my way. Maybe it's because I'm around five or six years older than some of them, I don't know. I wish I did. I was seeing many of them doing this again, putting their arms around each other, giving pecking kisses on the cheeks, stuff like that. Yet again, none of that affection was being shown my way. That kind of thing has really been hurting my self-confidence lately, making me wonder if I am worthy of that kind of attention from them, because I've certainly neve...

No, there's nothing wrong with you. What happened with your marriage was unfortunate, but you can't just hate yourself for feeling that way. Instead, you just need to find someone more compatible with your needs (or lack thereof). I should mention this wasn’t always the case; I was horny as fuck as a teenager and then had sex a couple dozen times Did you have sex because you were attracted to the person you were doing it with, or just because you were horny ? You might have been ace even then, but your horny teenager-ness sort of masked that a bit so it was less obvious. I’m really very sex positive (provided it isn’t happening to me). When you were reading the definitions of the terms, did you run across aegosexual? That's a common sentiment among aegos: "I really like sex, just as long as I'm not the one doing it". July 05, 2019 at 12:11AM

I'm pretty sure they mention that possibility in later seasons July 05, 2019 at 12:08AM