people who inspired you to make this post aren't even reading it - they are busy hating everything on their 10-ish dedicated communities. i highly recommend to ignore them completely. (i'm a hypocrite, and for that i have suffered) August 26, 2022 at 01:03AM

Basically what the title says. For context I was at the gym, saw a girl I've seen around once before like a month ago and went to say hello. We chatted for about 2 mins and exchanged names. And that was that. It was a pleasant interaction on both ends. Believe me when I say talking to a girl and ending pleasant is a new record for me. I'm kicking myself for not asking for the number, but at least next time it will be easier to talk to each other. In the future, should you go for the number right away? Or would it be better to gauge the likely hood you'll see them again and wait Submitted August 26, 2022 at 01:11AM Basically what the title says.For context I was at the gym, saw a girl I've seen around once before like a month ago and went to say hello.We chatted for about 2 mins and exchanged names. And that was that. It was a pleasant interaction on both ends.Believe me when I say talking to a girl and ending pleasant is a new record for me.I'm kicking m...

Iced coffee! I love a tall glass of cold brew! August 26, 2022 at 12:11AM

so the guy I’m (22F) seeing is an electrical engineer and he sent me a meme that basically says “my reaction when no one has thought to attach a generator to the wheels of electrical vehicles, so they never have to be charged” he then added “new invention idea?” I don’t have much knowledge of engineering and was just going to reply with “sounds like a ground breaking invention to me 👀💡🔥” or “yesss 🫡💡🔥” Would this be fine? TL;DR: Not sure how to respond to this text… need advice Submitted August 26, 2022 at 12:02AM so the guy I’m (22F) seeing is an electrical engineer and he sent me a meme that basically says “my reaction when no one has thought to attach a generator to the wheels of electrical vehicles, so they never have to be charged”he then added “new invention idea?”I don’t have much knowledge of engineering and was just going to reply with “sounds like a ground breaking invention to me 👀💡🔥” or “yesss 🫡💡🔥”Would this be fine?TL;DR: Not sure how to respond to t...

I’m not obsessed with social media. But I had noticed with a boyfriend that he never interacts with me on social media. Has never once liked my pics. But he IS very private online. He posts nothing personal. There are no pics online of himself. When I asked him about not liking or interacting with me, not putting in relationship with me by name, he said he’s weird about online stuff and prefers to be anonymous. He has gone to great lengths to not have pics of himself online etc. And I believed that. Bc I can see he doesn’t post things. There’s no pics online yeats and years back. BUT he has liked other peoples pics and posts in the past few years. Including women. And even since dating me the last year he likes men and womens posts and pics. But never ever mine. Not one single time. It’s be a year and a half relationship. Is that weird? It makes me suspicious. Bc I believed his reasoning for lack of social media involvement. But it appears he keeps anonymous, yet IS involved… just ...