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/u/Nyx-Star on Is asexual panromantic a thing?

Yes. I’m panromantic asexual. July 12, 2020 at 11:50PM

/u/Chiitann on Is it weird for an Ace to like super sexual music?

You might want to look up all the stuff that has come out about that dude from BOTDF...just a suggestion because dude seems super gross and predatory. To your question, no. I like music regardless of subject matter though some songs can get pretty, ahem, graphic, especially in hip hop. So I’ll avoid stuff like that. Being asexual doesn’t disable you from liking music that has a certain subject matter. July 12, 2020 at 11:49PM

/u/Tempest_Skies on Someone say that they wanna see more art in this sub, so here it is my favorite dragon ( toothless ) in the ace color.

Is that his mouth? I'm so confused. July 12, 2020 at 11:49PM

/u/Noveea on I gotta admit, us aces got a real nice aesthetic going on.

The people who invalidate us will never see it coming ;) July 12, 2020 at 11:46PM

/u/MeriAmory on I find a person pretty just like I find a beautiful landscape pretty - Ace-themed painting

I love that it is painted on a round. Very creative! July 12, 2020 at 11:46PM

/u/memyslfnchester on my biggest fear being asexual

I loved that scene in Sex Education (good show). It actually made me a bit teary-eyed, as did your post. I feel like this all the time. I’m an introvert so I don’t form bonds easily but I truly hope that I find a partner to spend my life with someday, despite all the hurdles. But at the moment, I’m just trying really hard to embrace feeling comfortable and happy alone without guilt. That way if one day I do end up alone for whatever reason, I know I’ll still be okay. We all deserve happiness whether in a relationship or not. Just remember you’re not alone. July 12, 2020 at 11:44PM

/u/Thirdeyeguy234 on My new chair is giving off some asexual vibes

Now it’s the property of the asexual gang 😤😤 July 12, 2020 at 11:44PM

/u/19971127 on Asexuality is not a lack of love it is a lack of sexual attraction.

I just want to find love. I'm asexual but still, I want to be in love and have some babies 😌 July 12, 2020 at 11:41PM

/u/legoloonie on Pressurised into thinking I'm not...

Asexuality is certainly not constant for some people, so you should absolutely not feel invalid about that. You may be somewhere on the grey end of the a-spec, but that's totally fine. Ultimately it's only about how you feel about sex, if you never want it (even if you get 'excited' sometimes) then you're asexual, full stop. But even if you want it only under certain circumstances, or you have some hormone swings that make you feel different sometimes, you can still be in the a-spec. Most importantly it's only a function of how you feel, not what other people perceive you to be. Good luck, and I hope you have some more understanding "friends". July 12, 2020 at 11:37PM

/u/DBMyHeart on Pressurised into thinking I'm not...

You are the only one who can identify your sexuality. If you identify as asexual, then you are. No one knows you better than you. July 12, 2020 at 11:34PM

/u/Galactic_Gecko on Someone say that they wanna see more art in this sub, so here it is my favorite dragon ( toothless ) in the ace color.

We do be out here with the best colour pallet XD July 12, 2020 at 11:31PM

/u/bluedogstar on Is it weird for an Ace to like super sexual music?

Could you be agosexual? Do you like the music because it is sexual or do you just like the music, ignoring the lyrics? Either way not weird. July 12, 2020 at 11:27PM

/u/Coxy07 on My new chair is giving off some asexual vibes

It looks like some thing Blazer, Lazer, Tazer and the gang would sit in on team meetings... July 12, 2020 at 11:22PM

/u/TheHellcatBandit on Cake is truely an amazing food

How to delete another users comment July 12, 2020 at 11:15PM

/u/Lowkeyspacepunk on Am I okay to label myself asexual even though I'm probably demi/more in the middle of the spectrum?

I've always thought of labeling your gender/sexuality as more of an art than a science. Do whatever makes you comfortable July 12, 2020 at 11:12PM

/u/alysurr on Watch "Straight Up" on Netflix right now for beautiful Ace representation

Probably because straight cisgender people should see this to understand other types of relationships, and titles like this can be attractive to them. July 12, 2020 at 11:12PM

/u/thenefariousellie on My new chair is giving off some asexual vibes

That, and Evangelion vibes lol July 12, 2020 at 11:09PM

/u/I_AM_A_FUCKING_DUCK_ on Goodbye, Reddit, it's been fun.

I'm sorry dude thats honestly why I haven't came out July 12, 2020 at 11:08PM

/u/clarinetily on thought this belonged here

That is one of the cutest things ever. July 12, 2020 at 11:08PM

Lonely in marriage

Anyone else feel lonely in their marriage? My husband doesn't really take the initiative to do fun and exciting things together. And I've caught him on tinder before. I find myself doing a lot of things on my own and trying to be happy on my own. Submitted July 12, 2020 at 11:48PM Anyone else feel lonely in their marriage? My husband doesn't really take the initiative to do fun and exciting things together. And I've caught him on tinder before. I find myself doing a lot of things on my own and trying to be happy on my own.

Gotta be tough. Didn’t you know nice guys get nothing?

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Going all in and getting hurt

Am I going about this the wrong way? As someone who has kept people at arms length and constantly has a wall up, I decided to jump back into OLD but this time, with the intention of throwing myself all-in and allowing myself to feel and experience what could be something real. I met someone and we had a great connection very early on. I blew it. I didn’t have the emotional maturity to support him when he was hurting and now, he’s withdrawn from me completely. I’m losing sleep over this because I’m still emotionally entangled. From the way this has gone, I don’t think going into this bare was a good idea. How am I suppose to protect myself yet stay open at the same time? Submitted July 12, 2020 at 10:46PM Am I going about this the wrong way? As someone who has kept people at arms length and constantly has a wall up, I decided to jump back into OLD but this time, with the intention of throwing myself all-in and allowing myself to feel and experience what could be something real.

Dating in a small town

I’m (32 m) moving to a smallish town (30k people), from a large metropolitan area with about 5 million people. What is dating like in these smaller towns? I’m not religious, so that might put me at a disadvantage when it comes to meeting people since I don’t go to church. What can you do to meet people? Where do you meet people? I’m not a big fan of online dating, so I’d prefer to actually go out and meet people in person. Submitted July 12, 2020 at 11:48PM I’m (32 m) moving to a smallish town (30k people), from a large metropolitan area with about 5 million people. What is dating like in these smaller towns? I’m not religious, so that might put me at a disadvantage when it comes to meeting people since I don’t go to church. What can you do to meet people? Where do you meet people? I’m not a big fan of online dating, so I’d prefer to actually go out and meet people in person.