Newlywed can't have sex with husband
Me and my husband have been married for close to 3 months now, and have maybe been intimate 4 times. I just have absolutely no interest in having sex with him. It's very hard because I'm head over heels in love with my husband, I know I want to be Intimate, but as soon as he makes advances I push him away. I have no interest in trying, his attempts to turn me on don't work. I can't really talk to anyone about it, because they will say 'well you love your husband right? Why don't you get aroused around him? Why don't you as a newlywed want to be intimate with your husband?' And honestly, I have no clue. I was abused as a child and my past relationships have been physically and emotionally abusive in some aspects, so maybe that's why? Any tips or tricks I can try? Anyone else experience this? Because I feel broken and like a terrible wife that I can't satisfy my husband and it's the main bone of contention in our new marriage.
Submitted October 28, 2019 at 12:04AM
Me and my husband have been married for close to 3 months now, and have maybe been intimate 4 times. I just have absolutely no interest in having sex with him. It's very hard because I'm head over heels in love with my husband, I know I want to be Intimate, but as soon as he makes advances I push him away. I have no interest in trying, his attempts to turn me on don't work. I can't really talk to anyone about it, because they will say 'well you love your husband right? Why don't you get aroused around him? Why don't you as a newlywed want to be intimate with your husband?' And honestly, I have no clue. I was abused as a child and my past relationships have been physically and emotionally abusive in some aspects, so maybe that's why? Any tips or tricks I can try? Anyone else experience this? Because I feel broken and like a terrible wife that I can't satisfy my husband and it's the main bone of contention in our new marriage.
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