Is he(18M) too young for me(21F)?

Hey guys! So...I'm hanging out with this guy I met at work this summer. We instantly hit it off, since we're both into same music and stuff. While we were working together we started acting like a couple to provoke our colleagues who are together but it was just for fun and I didn't thought it would become anything serious. He would come to me, hug me, touch my back, look me in the eye really long and tense. The affection that he gave me made me feel nice and I know that the same was for him... When we quit our jobs to go back to college we kept seeing each other almost everyday. We have that "bro" relationship where we tell eachother everything. We even make sexual comments about us having sex. This is where I'm getting confused. I don't know if this is just sexual tension betwen us or something more. He knows i look him as a friend and I know he likes another girl but he tells me such beautiful things none of my exes would have ever said to me. And it's genuine. I can tell that. And the thing is, I'm not sure what I want. He never had a gf or done anything, and if I did something maybe I would blame myself for taking that first kiss or something else from him. We talk about deep stuff and everything, he gets me, he is super inteligent and great listener. I just love spending time with him and he makes everything so easy for me, since my life situation hasn't been the best. He just knows and feels when i need a hug. He buys me chocolate for no reason. He even told me he loves me. So...I would love to hear some of your advices or experiences. I'm so confused...



Submitted October 07, 2019 at 11:51PM

Hey guys! So...I'm hanging out with this guy I met at work this summer. We instantly hit it off, since we're both into same music and stuff. While we were working together we started acting like a couple to provoke our colleagues who are together but it was just for fun and I didn't thought it would become anything serious. He would come to me, hug me, touch my back, look me in the eye really long and tense. The affection that he gave me made me feel nice and I know that the same was for him... When we quit our jobs to go back to college we kept seeing each other almost everyday. We have that "bro" relationship where we tell eachother everything. We even make sexual comments about us having sex. This is where I'm getting confused. I don't know if this is just sexual tension betwen us or something more. He knows i look him as a friend and I know he likes another girl but he tells me such beautiful things none of my exes would have ever said to me. And it's genuine. I can tell that. And the thing is, I'm not sure what I want. He never had a gf or done anything, and if I did something maybe I would blame myself for taking that first kiss or something else from him. We talk about deep stuff and everything, he gets me, he is super inteligent and great listener. I just love spending time with him and he makes everything so easy for me, since my life situation hasn't been the best. He just knows and feels when i need a hug. He buys me chocolate for no reason. He even told me he loves me. So...I would love to hear some of your advices or experiences. I'm so confused...
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