Is 4 too high of a body count for a 19 year old?

So when I was younger, I used to value sex like it was some sort of artefact from Indiana jones or something. However I lost my V card at 17 and since then have slept with 4 different girls. Is that too high for a 19 year old? Is that more than the average?

Also, there's a girl I was seeing in September/October last year who I cut ties with because she didn't reciprocate feelings for me and it was hella painful to stay just friends. I then slept with a girl in December to get over her, and now the girl I cut ties with shows interest and wants to give a relationship a chance. Is it just me or am I okay to feel weird about that. I love this girl, but would it be weird if she knew I slept with someone during our time apart? I wouldn't think so because she had a boyfriend herself during our time apart so I'd think it'd be ok but I want everyone else's opinion on the matter to see others insights.

Submitted March 07, 2020 at 11:42PM

So when I was younger, I used to value sex like it was some sort of artefact from Indiana jones or something. However I lost my V card at 17 and since then have slept with 4 different girls. Is that too high for a 19 year old? Is that more than the average?Also, there's a girl I was seeing in September/October last year who I cut ties with because she didn't reciprocate feelings for me and it was hella painful to stay just friends. I then slept with a girl in December to get over her, and now the girl I cut ties with shows interest and wants to give a relationship a chance. Is it just me or am I okay to feel weird about that. I love this girl, but would it be weird if she knew I slept with someone during our time apart? I wouldn't think so because she had a boyfriend herself during our time apart so I'd think it'd be ok but I want everyone else's opinion on the matter to see others insights.