My (24m) GF(22f) just dumped me over wow

Ok So I have been playing wow classic and my guild is getting ready to raid Molten Core. I am a few levels behind the main raid team and I want to make the team so I needed to level and gear up in time for the raid. My GF had been sick for the last few days and I guess she was like really sick because she asked me to take her to the doctors. I was in a dungeon and I asked her if she could wait until I was done becauuse I cant just pause it. She and I quote "Fine whatever just play WoW I'll call my dad" So she called her dad and he came to pick her up. Anyways I guess I lost track of time cause I realized it had been like 18 hours and I still hadnt heard from her and she wasnt back. So I shot her a text and she texted back she had been admitted to the hospital. I said I would head over to see her and she said and I quote "Its fine dads been with me you can just keep playing wow and I'll text you when I am discharged." So I went back to wow because I needed to gear and level in time for MC. Anyways a couple days went by and I still hadnt heard from her so I started to get worried and I texted her again and she texted back that she had been discharged and was staying at her dads whle she was recovering, Again I offered to go and see her but she said she didnt really want to see anyone and just wanted to sleep. That I could play wow. So now we cut to today and she comes home and says shes breaking up with me and that I dont support her and only care about video games. I was a little shocked because she said multiple times that it was fine if I played wow. She said that if she really had to explain this to me then there really was no future with me and she got some stuff and moved back in with her dad.

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I posted this in Aita Now the consensus seems to be pretty clear over there that I am definitely wrong here and that I should not have taken her at her word when she said it was fine and should have known it wasn't fine. Ok I admit I might have gotten carried away. My question is, is there anyways to win her back? To show her I realize I am wrong and to get her to give me another chance? Shes not currently talking to me at all. She just gave me a time and date when she would be back with her dad to get the rest of her stuff. Is there any way to fix this really unforgivable?

TLDR; GF was sick I was playing wow she said it was fine if I played wow so I did but it really wasnt fine she dumped me how do I win her back?



Submitted September 20, 2019 at 11:45PM

Ok So I have been playing wow classic and my guild is getting ready to raid Molten Core. I am a few levels behind the main raid team and I want to make the team so I needed to level and gear up in time for the raid. My GF had been sick for the last few days and I guess she was like really sick because she asked me to take her to the doctors. I was in a dungeon and I asked her if she could wait until I was done becauuse I cant just pause it. She and I quote "Fine whatever just play WoW I'll call my dad" So she called her dad and he came to pick her up. Anyways I guess I lost track of time cause I realized it had been like 18 hours and I still hadnt heard from her and she wasnt back. So I shot her a text and she texted back she had been admitted to the hospital. I said I would head over to see her and she said and I quote "Its fine dads been with me you can just keep playing wow and I'll text you when I am discharged." So I went back to wow because I needed to gear and level in time for MC. Anyways a couple days went by and I still hadnt heard from her so I started to get worried and I texted her again and she texted back that she had been discharged and was staying at her dads whle she was recovering, Again I offered to go and see her but she said she didnt really want to see anyone and just wanted to sleep. That I could play wow. So now we cut to today and she comes home and says shes breaking up with me and that I dont support her and only care about video games. I was a little shocked because she said multiple times that it was fine if I played wow. She said that if she really had to explain this to me then there really was no future with me and she got some stuff and moved back in with her dad.​I posted this in Aita Now the consensus seems to be pretty clear over there that I am definitely wrong here and that I should not have taken her at her word when she said it was fine and should have known it wasn't fine. Ok I admit I might have gotten carried away. My question is, is there anyways to win her back? To show her I realize I am wrong and to get her to give me another chance? Shes not currently talking to me at all. She just gave me a time and date when she would be back with her dad to get the rest of her stuff. Is there any way to fix this really unforgivable?TLDR; GF was sick I was playing wow she said it was fine if I played wow so I did but it really wasnt fine she dumped me how do I win her back?
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