What do you like the most about the before-you-date phase with someone in which you both act all nervous and have the butterflies in your belly?

I like a guy and we've been having a lot of moments for the past month or so. We're not dating but I think we both know something's going on between the two of us.

Yesterday I was studying at the faculty and he (he has a different schedule than me and he had class) came into the study room just to distract me. He was supposed to be in class but he said the teacher wasn't explaining so he was going to "distract" me while I tried to study. He is in fifth year so he explained to me a few things I didn't understand and then we just started talking about random stuff. He grabbed a chair and sat very very close to me and then proceeded to tell me he loved my accent (I'm Peruvian but I live in Argentina and he's from Argentina and our accents are VERY different), then started touching my bracelet and asked if it could be taken off (which is obvious because it has a little lock thingy) and THEN he asked me if I was wearing a new necklace because the day before I was wearing another one with a little flower. I just couldn't believe how he had noticed I was wearing a DIFFERENT NECKLACE and remembered the one I had the day before (and he saw me just for a few minutes before he had his class). Then we kept talking about random stuff and he kept leaning towards me and looking straight into my eyes. I always get really nervous when we are close to each other and yesterday we were completely alone in the room and the tension was real. I loved every moment of it. I just really like feeling that rush of electricity that goes through my body when I see him and we make eye contact, or when we accidentally touch each other or something. I really missed having all these feelings with someone.

What do you like the most about this phase of liking someone before actually start dating?



Submitted October 03, 2019 at 11:43PM

I like a guy and we've been having a lot of moments for the past month or so. We're not dating but I think we both know something's going on between the two of us.Yesterday I was studying at the faculty and he (he has a different schedule than me and he had class) came into the study room just to distract me. He was supposed to be in class but he said the teacher wasn't explaining so he was going to "distract" me while I tried to study. He is in fifth year so he explained to me a few things I didn't understand and then we just started talking about random stuff. He grabbed a chair and sat very very close to me and then proceeded to tell me he loved my accent (I'm Peruvian but I live in Argentina and he's from Argentina and our accents are VERY different), then started touching my bracelet and asked if it could be taken off (which is obvious because it has a little lock thingy) and THEN he asked me if I was wearing a new necklace because the day before I was wearing another one with a little flower. I just couldn't believe how he had noticed I was wearing a DIFFERENT NECKLACE and remembered the one I had the day before (and he saw me just for a few minutes before he had his class). Then we kept talking about random stuff and he kept leaning towards me and looking straight into my eyes. I always get really nervous when we are close to each other and yesterday we were completely alone in the room and the tension was real. I loved every moment of it. I just really like feeling that rush of electricity that goes through my body when I see him and we make eye contact, or when we accidentally touch each other or something. I really missed having all these feelings with someone.What do you like the most about this phase of liking someone before actually start dating?
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