I know this is long, but bear with me cause I’m stuck and need HELP lol

I (24F) met this guy (23M) on tinder last year. We went on two dates and the third didn’t work out, then we stopped talking shortly after. Fast forward to mid August of this year, he reached out and we slowly started talking again. He apologized for his past behavior and the way he treated me (cuz he wasn’t the nicest towards me) and he was going through some stuff at the time.

Back…during that year; we still had each other on social media and he’d comment on my stories and i was doing the same. According to him, i was his angel cause i was helping him without knowing and motivating him to keep going. And if he ever wanted to talk..anytime to vent, I’m here. So..basically, I’d check up on him during that time.

Anyways; we couldn’t meet until September, cause he was out of the state with his family and then a hurricane hit. However; during that time, we were talking, texting and video calling…almost everyday. During that time, I helped him with his severe depression and things that took a toll on him from his past relationships. Then we started meeting again at his place (didn’t do anything sexual) we were just hanging out, talking and watching movies. At that point, he said that he would be moving in January for work. Which i said, I don’t have a problem with. Days after, he asked, when I’m going to be his girlfriend? I said, it’s kinda early for that.

Now, it been almost 2 months of us seeing each other. He hasn’t taken me out to a “proper date” cause of his depression, where sometimes..he isn’t in the mood to go out. I decided to ask, what are we, are we dating or talking? Cause at that point, i was honestly confused. So i said, then we must be friends and after that he kept referring to us as friends, yet we would make out, cuddle…etc.

Anyways; i told him someone was asking me out and got me flowers. And that i might consider it (which i was lying about cuz I already told the guy I’m seeing someone). He said no, I’m gonna take you out and watch his brothers soccer game, since..i love soccer. Anyways; the next day comes, which when we decided to meet. And i get this text that said, to go on my date and have a good time with the guy. I responded okay and carried on with my day, mind you, I was furious.

Anywho…he calls later on, I ignored him. Then texted me and i told him, that i was upset with him and that I don’t want to talk to him again. He called again and i answered, asking about my date, which i said there wasn’t one. I was just giving him one responses answer and he said that his brother lost the game and I said okay, GOOD…Congratulations🤦‍♀️my mind was somewhere else lol and he hung up. Texted me to tell me that he told his brothers team congratulation and they responded with “mhm”. He said, that he’s blocking my number. Now my dilemma is, do I apologize to him and move on?? I literally feel like he throw away everything i have done for him and didn’t care about me at all. He still follows me on social media though 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️ HELP, I don’t know what to do. AND SORRY ABOUT MY ENGLISH, ENGLISH isn’t my first language.

Submitted November 16, 2021 at 01:07AM

I (24F) met this guy (23M) on tinder last year. We went on two dates and the third didn’t work out, then we stopped talking shortly after. Fast forward to mid August of this year, he reached out and we slowly started talking again. He apologized for his past behavior and the way he treated me (cuz he wasn’t the nicest towards me) and he was going through some stuff at the time.Back…during that year; we still had each other on social media and he’d comment on my stories and i was doing the same. According to him, i was his angel cause i was helping him without knowing and motivating him to keep going. And if he ever wanted to talk..anytime to vent, I’m here. So..basically, I’d check up on him during that time.Anyways; we couldn’t meet until September, cause he was out of the state with his family and then a hurricane hit. However; during that time, we were talking, texting and video calling…almost everyday. During that time, I helped him with his severe depression and things that took a toll on him from his past relationships. Then we started meeting again at his place (didn’t do anything sexual) we were just hanging out, talking and watching movies. At that point, he said that he would be moving in January for work. Which i said, I don’t have a problem with. Days after, he asked, when I’m going to be his girlfriend? I said, it’s kinda early for that.Now, it been almost 2 months of us seeing each other. He hasn’t taken me out to a “proper date” cause of his depression, where sometimes..he isn’t in the mood to go out. I decided to ask, what are we, are we dating or talking? Cause at that point, i was honestly confused. So i said, then we must be friends and after that he kept referring to us as friends, yet we would make out, cuddle…etc.Anyways; i told him someone was asking me out and got me flowers. And that i might consider it (which i was lying about cuz I already told the guy I’m seeing someone). He said no, I’m gonna take you out and watch his brothers soccer game, since..i love soccer. Anyways; the next day comes, which when we decided to meet. And i get this text that said, to go on my date and have a good time with the guy. I responded okay and carried on with my day, mind you, I was furious.Anywho…he calls later on, I ignored him. Then texted me and i told him, that i was upset with him and that I don’t want to talk to him again. He called again and i answered, asking about my date, which i said there wasn’t one. I was just giving him one responses answer and he said that his brother lost the game and I said okay, GOOD…Congratulations🤦‍♀️my mind was somewhere else lol and he hung up. Texted me to tell me that he told his brothers team congratulation and they responded with “mhm”. He said, that he’s blocking my number. Now my dilemma is, do I apologize to him and move on?? I literally feel like he throw away everything i have done for him and didn’t care about me at all. He still follows me on social media though 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️ HELP, I don’t know what to do. AND SORRY ABOUT MY ENGLISH, ENGLISH isn’t my first language.