Ive never orgasmed before, and its never been a problem till now

Hi, so my boyfriend (m18) and I (f19) started dating in early September. We live about 10 ish minutes away when Im home but Im at university eight months if the year. My parents don’t like him because he takes up too much time out of my studies. So, he comes to see me a couple times a semester, and so far its been great. We lost our virginities to each other back in December. It felt really good and being my first time, I wasn’t sure how fo feel, but I was happy and enjoyed the experience. Later he asked me if I’d orgasmed and I kind if danced around the subject so he assumed yes. We did it again yesterday, he said to let him know when I came. Now my boyfriend is hot, don’t get me wrong and I love him like no other, but after a lot of him going down and taking breaks and fingering and all that, I just told him I came when he did. He was inside of me so its not like he would’ve known anyway. It feels good, and so really theres no difference for me but I know he’d be disappointed. I’ve never orgasmed for anything, so maybe its just that I don’t know its happening? I don’t know what to do... help?



Submitted January 29, 2020 at 11:49PM

Hi, so my boyfriend (m18) and I (f19) started dating in early September. We live about 10 ish minutes away when Im home but Im at university eight months if the year. My parents don’t like him because he takes up too much time out of my studies. So, he comes to see me a couple times a semester, and so far its been great. We lost our virginities to each other back in December. It felt really good and being my first time, I wasn’t sure how fo feel, but I was happy and enjoyed the experience. Later he asked me if I’d orgasmed and I kind if danced around the subject so he assumed yes. We did it again yesterday, he said to let him know when I came. Now my boyfriend is hot, don’t get me wrong and I love him like no other, but after a lot of him going down and taking breaks and fingering and all that, I just told him I came when he did. He was inside of me so its not like he would’ve known anyway. It feels good, and so really theres no difference for me but I know he’d be disappointed. I’ve never orgasmed for anything, so maybe its just that I don’t know its happening? I don’t know what to do... help?
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