Is this shady? He unmatches as soon as we exchange numbers so I can't see his profile anymore

So I (33F) match with a guy on Hinge (?M). We text in the app for about 24 hours - going well. He asks for my number - I give it (it's a Google Voice number). Then he texts me and asks to set up a phone / FaceTime date. I'm excited, getting ready to say yes. Then I go back into Hinge to look at his profile so I can remember his last name and save him in my phone and POOF, he's gone from the app.

I think this is weird so I text him and ask. I say, I can't see your profile anymore, did you unmatch with me? He says "yeah because I got your number."

I find his behavior to be highly weird. There are several reasons that I like to go back and look at a guy's profile and to our in-app chat history. 1 - refresh my memory on what we talked about so I'm not repeating myself. 2 - refresh my memory on exactly what he looks like when I'm trying to find him at designated public location for first date. 3 - looking back at what he put on his profile that I frankly don't always remember because I'm talking with several people - see above, I can't remember the guy's age now 🤦‍♀️. 4 - safety reasons, I take a screenshot of the guy I'm going on a first date with and text his photo and our date location to a friend before all of my first dates (it won't save me if he's a criminal, but it will ensure the police know who to go talk to if I turn up missing). 5 - sometimes if you're vibin on somebody you just wanna go back and scroll through their cute pics and smile!!!

Am I off-base in finding this to be really weird behavior on his part? And what is even the point, does anyone have any guesses on why he would do this? It seems shady and weird to me.

I've only had 2 guys ever unmatch me before, and both did so because they got pissy when I expressed not wanting to go out. That makes sense to me, this situation has me scratching my head. Help please!

Submitted October 05, 2020 at 11:35PM

So I (33F) match with a guy on Hinge (?M). We text in the app for about 24 hours - going well. He asks for my number - I give it (it's a Google Voice number). Then he texts me and asks to set up a phone / FaceTime date. I'm excited, getting ready to say yes. Then I go back into Hinge to look at his profile so I can remember his last name and save him in my phone and POOF, he's gone from the app.I think this is weird so I text him and ask. I say, I can't see your profile anymore, did you unmatch with me? He says "yeah because I got your number."I find his behavior to be highly weird. There are several reasons that I like to go back and look at a guy's profile and to our in-app chat history. 1 - refresh my memory on what we talked about so I'm not repeating myself. 2 - refresh my memory on exactly what he looks like when I'm trying to find him at designated public location for first date. 3 - looking back at what he put on his profile that I frankly don't always remember because I'm talking with several people - see above, I can't remember the guy's age now 🤦‍♀️. 4 - safety reasons, I take a screenshot of the guy I'm going on a first date with and text his photo and our date location to a friend before all of my first dates (it won't save me if he's a criminal, but it will ensure the police know who to go talk to if I turn up missing). 5 - sometimes if you're vibin on somebody you just wanna go back and scroll through their cute pics and smile!!!Am I off-base in finding this to be really weird behavior on his part? And what is even the point, does anyone have any guesses on why he would do this? It seems shady and weird to me.I've only had 2 guys ever unmatch me before, and both did so because they got pissy when I expressed not wanting to go out. That makes sense to me, this situation has me scratching my head. Help please!