Girl Used Sex to Push Me into Relationship

Hi. I am writing this because I am a guy in a relationship with a girl that I have decidedly mixed feelings about. Before I explain why, I should explain how the relationship began.

Okay, so I recently started my junior year in high school. Given my proficiency in math, I agreed to tutor other students who are struggling in my calculus class. When the year began, three students said they would like me to tutor them. Two were males and one was a girl. The girl is a star on the track team and one of the most popular girls in school. On the first day of tutoring, she said she needs my help in calculus or she might be booted off the team. The teacher even stressed I need to help her!

Anyway, on the first day of tutoring, all of us were in the library. Now the girl started complaining that she can't get a boyfriend because she is so consumed with studying and track. I then jokingly said I would be her boyfriend. She then said "OK. Let's do it." The guys in our group started saying how "lucky" I'd be to have her as a girlfriend. I then said I was joking before and let's get back to studying. That didn't work; she kept flirting with me and talked about us going to junior prom. Now I started flirting too; she is pretty and seemed nice. After an hour, we all left without really doing any studying.

Now the next time we met to study, I said we need to concentrate on studying. The three agreed, and spent the next hour doing just that. As we were ending, the girl told me we need to get closer if we're going to be boyfriend and girlfriend. Then she laughed. The two other guys in our group laughed and told us to get a room. I laughed too and left.

Anyway, the third time we were supposed to meet up to study, the two guys told me they couldn't make it. I had to have the track star all to myself. Anyway, since the library was closed for some reason, she told me we had to study at home. I agreed and I drove her to my home. Anyway, when she saw my parents weren't home, she started flirting with me again. I glanced at her short skirt showing her bare legs for a second, but turned away quickly. I mumbled let's just study. As I went to my room, I sat down at my desk. She said "You're going to be my boyfriend" and started kissing me. She then sat down on my desk, hiked her skirt up, and placed her legs on my shoulders. I looked down briefly and could see she wasn't wearing underwear. She said she removed it just for me. I told her this was going too fast, but she said she needed to feel close to me and and I should relax. She then pushed my head into her crotch and said eat me. I then told her I just wanted to study, but she squeezed her legs tight together and told me to stop being difficult. I then gave in and agreed to eat her out. When I was done, she seemed to be satisfied with what I did. She said she was glad she found a guy who would please her. She then said we needed to study. We did for a little while and then she left.

Anyway, now this girl is going around telling everyone in school I'm her boyfriend. I'm going along with it, since I don't have a girlfriend either. When I told her privately I thought she was too aggressive in our first encounter, she said she would be more careful in the future. (By the way, we had sex once after our initial encounter. It was all right and less one-sided than the first time).

Now don't get me wrong, this girl is beautiful and smart. She tells me she really want to succeed in calculus, and the next time we studied in the library with the other two guys, she was really committed to learning. Everyone tells me what a lucky dude I am for getting someone as great as her. The only problem is, I can't shake the feeling she tricked me into having sex with her so we would get together. I also suspect she is with me because she wanted to tell her friends she could get a guy and not be all obsessed with school and track.

Now my question is, does this girl seem all right? Should I just go with the flow and accept she is my girlfriend? Is she manipulative? I honestly am a bit confused right now and would like any advice.

Submitted September 15, 2019 at 12:02AM

Hi. I am writing this because I am a guy in a relationship with a girl that I have decidedly mixed feelings about. Before I explain why, I should explain how the relationship began.Okay, so I recently started my junior year in high school. Given my proficiency in math, I agreed to tutor other students who are struggling in my calculus class. When the year began, three students said they would like me to tutor them. Two were males and one was a girl. The girl is a star on the track team and one of the most popular girls in school. On the first day of tutoring, she said she needs my help in calculus or she might be booted off the team. The teacher even stressed I need to help her!Anyway, on the first day of tutoring, all of us were in the library. Now the girl started complaining that she can't get a boyfriend because she is so consumed with studying and track. I then jokingly said I would be her boyfriend. She then said "OK. Let's do it." The guys in our group started saying how "lucky" I'd be to have her as a girlfriend. I then said I was joking before and let's get back to studying. That didn't work; she kept flirting with me and talked about us going to junior prom. Now I started flirting too; she is pretty and seemed nice. After an hour, we all left without really doing any studying.Now the next time we met to study, I said we need to concentrate on studying. The three agreed, and spent the next hour doing just that. As we were ending, the girl told me we need to get closer if we're going to be boyfriend and girlfriend. Then she laughed. The two other guys in our group laughed and told us to get a room. I laughed too and left.Anyway, the third time we were supposed to meet up to study, the two guys told me they couldn't make it. I had to have the track star all to myself. Anyway, since the library was closed for some reason, she told me we had to study at home. I agreed and I drove her to my home. Anyway, when she saw my parents weren't home, she started flirting with me again. I glanced at her short skirt showing her bare legs for a second, but turned away quickly. I mumbled let's just study. As I went to my room, I sat down at my desk. She said "You're going to be my boyfriend" and started kissing me. She then sat down on my desk, hiked her skirt up, and placed her legs on my shoulders. I looked down briefly and could see she wasn't wearing underwear. She said she removed it just for me. I told her this was going too fast, but she said she needed to feel close to me and and I should relax. She then pushed my head into her crotch and said eat me. I then told her I just wanted to study, but she squeezed her legs tight together and told me to stop being difficult. I then gave in and agreed to eat her out. When I was done, she seemed to be satisfied with what I did. She said she was glad she found a guy who would please her. She then said we needed to study. We did for a little while and then she left.Anyway, now this girl is going around telling everyone in school I'm her boyfriend. I'm going along with it, since I don't have a girlfriend either. When I told her privately I thought she was too aggressive in our first encounter, she said she would be more careful in the future. (By the way, we had sex once after our initial encounter. It was all right and less one-sided than the first time).Now don't get me wrong, this girl is beautiful and smart. She tells me she really want to succeed in calculus, and the next time we studied in the library with the other two guys, she was really committed to learning. Everyone tells me what a lucky dude I am for getting someone as great as her. The only problem is, I can't shake the feeling she tricked me into having sex with her so we would get together. I also suspect she is with me because she wanted to tell her friends she could get a guy and not be all obsessed with school and track.Now my question is, does this girl seem all right? Should I just go with the flow and accept she is my girlfriend? Is she manipulative? I honestly am a bit confused right now and would like any advice.