Having trouble knowing what I (20m) want

My girlfriend (20f) and I (20m) of 2 1/2 years haven't had sex hardly at all the entirety of our relationship. Maybe a few times, but not often whatsoever. She claims she feels uncomfortable because we both live at home still.

Before her and I began dating, I had been with a few people. Half of them male; and now, at this point in our relationship, I am craving sex a lot more often. I have explained my sexual desires to my girlfriend, and she claims she has a very strong sexual drive as well, however, we never have sex and we hardly ever help each other to get off (via oral/hands).

Now, I am craving sex a lot lately... but not just from her. I am craving my old partners; the males and females, and I'm craving what they have given me in the past. They have given me that sexual relief that I so desperately wanted. I love my girlfriend. I don't see us splitting. However, this is something we have definitely had some small arguments about. It's getting difficult, especially since these cravings have really started coming back.

Does anyone else have any advice? Or perhaps anything similar stories you may wish to tell?



Submitted April 12, 2019 at 03:25AM

My girlfriend (20f) and I (20m) of 2 1/2 years haven't had sex hardly at all the entirety of our relationship. Maybe a few times, but not often whatsoever. She claims she feels uncomfortable because we both live at home still.​Before her and I began dating, I had been with a few people. Half of them male; and now, at this point in our relationship, I am craving sex a lot more often. I have explained my sexual desires to my girlfriend, and she claims she has a very strong sexual drive as well, however, we never have sex and we hardly ever help each other to get off (via oral/hands).​Now, I am craving sex a lot lately... but not just from her. I am craving my old partners; the males and females, and I'm craving what they have given me in the past. They have given me that sexual relief that I so desperately wanted. I love my girlfriend. I don't see us splitting. However, this is something we have definitely had some small arguments about. It's getting difficult, especially since these cravings have really started coming back.​Does anyone else have any advice? Or perhaps anything similar stories you may wish to tell?

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