Suddenly can't masturbate? (f)

I've never orgasmed. I never really knew how to masturbate and I didn't have enough interest to learn. I accidentally discovered it about two years ago when playing out a fantasy of a guy touching my clit. It started out that I would use circular motions and listen to my body, applying pressure and quickening as I felt until I began to feel a tingling sensation.

Then I would just stop. Eventually I tried pushing through, as I wanted to feel beyond the tingles. So I continued and I would feel a sudden wave of arousal and goodness and my breath would quicken for 3-5 seconds and then it would go away. After that, my clit would be a bit sensitive, but it is like all the arousal is gone. If I try to continue, it just feels like I'm touching any other part of my body.

I've tried stopping before I reach the wave of "goodness", waiting, and then continuing, because I've been told egging it on slowly like that can help reach orgasm. That makes my clit increasingly more susceptible to the wave of feel goodness at any slight touch. The problem there is that if I'm not applying much pressure and the wave comes, it is weaker and even more dissatisfying. My breath won't even quicken. I've also tried touching myself elsewhere, getting myself wet before moving onto the clit, etc.

Naturally masturbation is usually incredibly dissatisfying and disappointing. How do I combat this? What's going on?

Tldr: when I masturbate through clitoral stimulation, I have a 3-5 second lasting feeling of goodness and then it disappears and I feel like I'm just touching any part of my body. What do I do?

Submitted April 12, 2019 at 03:57AM

I've never orgasmed. I never really knew how to masturbate and I didn't have enough interest to learn. I accidentally discovered it about two years ago when playing out a fantasy of a guy touching my clit. It started out that I would use circular motions and listen to my body, applying pressure and quickening as I felt until I began to feel a tingling sensation.Then I would just stop. Eventually I tried pushing through, as I wanted to feel beyond the tingles. So I continued and I would feel a sudden wave of arousal and goodness and my breath would quicken for 3-5 seconds and then it would go away. After that, my clit would be a bit sensitive, but it is like all the arousal is gone. If I try to continue, it just feels like I'm touching any other part of my body.I've tried stopping before I reach the wave of "goodness", waiting, and then continuing, because I've been told egging it on slowly like that can help reach orgasm. That makes my clit increasingly more susceptible to the wave of feel goodness at any slight touch. The problem there is that if I'm not applying much pressure and the wave comes, it is weaker and even more dissatisfying. My breath won't even quicken. I've also tried touching myself elsewhere, getting myself wet before moving onto the clit, etc.Naturally masturbation is usually incredibly dissatisfying and disappointing. How do I combat this? What's going on?Tldr: when I masturbate through clitoral stimulation, I have a 3-5 second lasting feeling of goodness and then it disappears and I feel like I'm just touching any part of my body. What do I do?