I can’t tell if she likes me or doesn’t like me at all?

I (M18) have a good friend “N” (F18) and the girl in question is “R”.

I have known N since middle school and we ended up going to the same college and being in the same major (we’re freshman now). N’s roommate is R, which is how I found out about her. Then a few weeks ago, R requested me on Instagram and a few days later, she requested me on my back-up/close friends account too, but quickly cancelled the request to follow that account (maybe showing that she was stalking?). When college started (a few weeks ago), there were a few group situations where me and R were present and I would catch her looking at me and vice versa. However, we haven’t really talked at all. A few days ago, my other good friend T, sent me R’s number telling me that she has the same chem professor as me (by mistake) and this is how I reached out to R:

Me: Hey R! This is (my name)

I thought I would reach out since T gave me your number

I was wondering if you wanted connect sometime soon to get to know each other since I heard you have some of the same classes as me

(3-4 minutes later)

Her: Hi (my name)! Sure, I would love to!

(45 minutes later)

Me: Awesome, are you free anytime next week?

(17 hours later)

Her: Oh I think T got my professors mixed up I have professor S not professor K lol, so I don’t think we have any classes together HAHA

Personally, I’ve only seen her a few times and never talked to her but I already feel really attracted to her and her personality (<- especially). How do I go about this? I’m thinking of not responding anything to her last message and maybe tell T about how I feel about R? Does R not like me at all? I’m so confused

Submitted August 29, 2021 at 11:47PM

I (M18) have a good friend “N” (F18) and the girl in question is “R”.I have known N since middle school and we ended up going to the same college and being in the same major (we’re freshman now). N’s roommate is R, which is how I found out about her. Then a few weeks ago, R requested me on Instagram and a few days later, she requested me on my back-up/close friends account too, but quickly cancelled the request to follow that account (maybe showing that she was stalking?). When college started (a few weeks ago), there were a few group situations where me and R were present and I would catch her looking at me and vice versa. However, we haven’t really talked at all. A few days ago, my other good friend T, sent me R’s number telling me that she has the same chem professor as me (by mistake) and this is how I reached out to R:Me: Hey R! This is (my name)I thought I would reach out since T gave me your numberI was wondering if you wanted connect sometime soon to get to know each other since I heard you have some of the same classes as me(3-4 minutes later)Her: Hi (my name)! Sure, I would love to!(45 minutes later)Me: Awesome, are you free anytime next week?(17 hours later)Her: Oh I think T got my professors mixed up I have professor S not professor K lol, so I don’t think we have any classes together HAHAPersonally, I’ve only seen her a few times and never talked to her but I already feel really attracted to her and her personality (<- especially). How do I go about this? I’m thinking of not responding anything to her last message and maybe tell T about how I feel about R? Does R not like me at all? I’m so confused