Should I tell the guy I like that I have feelings for him?

What should I do? Please help.

I (28F) have feelings for this guy named David (38M) that I met at work and can’t seem to get him off of my mind. I am a caregiver and I took care of his grandma over the weekends for a while. David lives with his grandma and this is how we met. He is a few years older than me, single and without any kids.

From my encounters with David, he has always been really nice to me. We would talk for a bit and once talked about why he was single. I liked how he was really honest with me and how he was really sweet towards me. Sometimes early in the morning he would even make me breakfast, and that was something that I should be doing as a caretaker. He said he wanted to do that to show his appreciation for me taking care of his grandma.

Unfortunately, I had to leave a few weeks ago because my mom was hospitalized and needed me to be with her at home. I never got to say bye to him or anything, I was only able to communicate with the caregiving agency. This made me sad because I felt as though we could’ve gotten to know each other a little more. I enjoyed his company whenever he would be at home over the weekend.

Do I try to pursue anything and tell him how I feel? or would that be inappropriate because I was a former employee for his grandma? I think about him a lot and don’t know what to do honestly. I guess I’m feeling cabin fever because of the Coronavirus, but this is how I feel at the moment. Help would be grateful appreciated, I feel like stuck and don’t know what to do. If I should say anything to him and pursue getting to know him more, what would I even say?

Anyways, thank you for taking the time in reading this and helping me out in advance!

Take care and stay safe everyone!

TL;DR! Basically, I like this guy and I don’t know if I should message him and tell him how I feel or not, especially since he is former client’s grandson. I have his phone number because he is listed as his grandma’s emergency contacts.



Submitted March 26, 2020 at 11:47PM

What should I do? Please help.I (28F) have feelings for this guy named David (38M) that I met at work and can’t seem to get him off of my mind. I am a caregiver and I took care of his grandma over the weekends for a while. David lives with his grandma and this is how we met. He is a few years older than me, single and without any kids.From my encounters with David, he has always been really nice to me. We would talk for a bit and once talked about why he was single. I liked how he was really honest with me and how he was really sweet towards me. Sometimes early in the morning he would even make me breakfast, and that was something that I should be doing as a caretaker. He said he wanted to do that to show his appreciation for me taking care of his grandma.Unfortunately, I had to leave a few weeks ago because my mom was hospitalized and needed me to be with her at home. I never got to say bye to him or anything, I was only able to communicate with the caregiving agency. This made me sad because I felt as though we could’ve gotten to know each other a little more. I enjoyed his company whenever he would be at home over the weekend.Do I try to pursue anything and tell him how I feel? or would that be inappropriate because I was a former employee for his grandma? I think about him a lot and don’t know what to do honestly. I guess I’m feeling cabin fever because of the Coronavirus, but this is how I feel at the moment. Help would be grateful appreciated, I feel like stuck and don’t know what to do. If I should say anything to him and pursue getting to know him more, what would I even say?Anyways, thank you for taking the time in reading this and helping me out in advance!Take care and stay safe everyone!TL;DR! Basically, I like this guy and I don’t know if I should message him and tell him how I feel or not, especially since he is former client’s grandson. I have his phone number because he is listed as his grandma’s emergency contacts.
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