I don’t know what to do

Basically I matched a girl in tindr we met hit it off really well but we lived a distance away so after maybe 2 months she asked me to move into her uni house, her housemates we okay with me being there she loved me being there so it was all good…apart from her mum and dad, they don’t like me but from what I’ve been told they don’t like any bf she’s ever had, but I figured whatever if they don’t like me they don’t like me but if she loves me like she says we’ll be okay fast forward to month 8 of us being together her house mate tell me she cheated on me with a family friend during a weekend away I wasn’t allowed to go to, also they guy is who her parents have always went her with. I kick off thinking the worst I love this girl we where FaceTiming and talk the whole time she was away and I hear she kissing this guy I hit the roof… I was wrong he tried to kiss her and she rejected him so he kicked off I wasn’t told this straight away because they knew id left work to confront him i don’t know how to say this without sounding ridiculous but I would have destroyed him, so she wait till I left to tell me he tried it on. But the weekend ended with her moving back home and not being allowed to see me because of her parents, I don’t know what to do because she says she loves m like I love her but we can’t be together because her parents shes 21 so what do I do I’ve never felt like this before and I’m lost without her. Sorry if it’s confusing I’m just lost



Submitted April 09, 2022 at 11:56PM

Basically I matched a girl in tindr we met hit it off really well but we lived a distance away so after maybe 2 months she asked me to move into her uni house, her housemates we okay with me being there she loved me being there so it was all good…apart from her mum and dad, they don’t like me but from what I’ve been told they don’t like any bf she’s ever had, but I figured whatever if they don’t like me they don’t like me but if she loves me like she says we’ll be okay fast forward to month 8 of us being together her house mate tell me she cheated on me with a family friend during a weekend away I wasn’t allowed to go to, also they guy is who her parents have always went her with. I kick off thinking the worst I love this girl we where FaceTiming and talk the whole time she was away and I hear she kissing this guy I hit the roof… I was wrong he tried to kiss her and she rejected him so he kicked off I wasn’t told this straight away because they knew id left work to confront him i don’t know how to say this without sounding ridiculous but I would have destroyed him, so she wait till I left to tell me he tried it on. But the weekend ended with her moving back home and not being allowed to see me because of her parents, I don’t know what to do because she says she loves m like I love her but we can’t be together because her parents shes 21 so what do I do I’ve never felt like this before and I’m lost without her. Sorry if it’s confusing I’m just lost
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