cant orgasm with my SO

my gf and i (both girls) had our first time about a week ago and long story short- it was spectacular. my only issue was i didn't orgasm. i ate my girl out for a reasonable amount of time, she got there, great. when it was my turn i felt really bad, was constantly asking her if she's tired or wants to take a break. did it feel great? abso-fuckin-lutely. and i was extremely close too but it still didn't happen which makes me very insecure. we had sex again a few days ago and the same thing happened. we were rushing because my parents were about to come home and i made her orgasm in 8 minutes. then it was my turn- and again, i was very close but still didn't come. felt very sorry for my gf and lied that i came twice. im diagnosed with bipolar ii and anxiety, i take zoloft but im able to make myself orgasm through masturbation. interestingly enough, only with a water stream and riding a pillow for example. what could be the issue here?



Submitted March 04, 2020 at 11:54PM

my gf and i (both girls) had our first time about a week ago and long story short- it was spectacular. my only issue was i didn't orgasm. i ate my girl out for a reasonable amount of time, she got there, great. when it was my turn i felt really bad, was constantly asking her if she's tired or wants to take a break. did it feel great? abso-fuckin-lutely. and i was extremely close too but it still didn't happen which makes me very insecure. we had sex again a few days ago and the same thing happened. we were rushing because my parents were about to come home and i made her orgasm in 8 minutes. then it was my turn- and again, i was very close but still didn't come. felt very sorry for my gf and lied that i came twice. im diagnosed with bipolar ii and anxiety, i take zoloft but im able to make myself orgasm through masturbation. interestingly enough, only with a water stream and riding a pillow for example. what could be the issue here?

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