(m21) taking girl(f20) I like out in our first “real” date, judge my idea?

So after hanging out a few times and flirting a bunch we finally set a date. We’re both pretty busy so it’s a Monday night date. I haven’t told her what we’re doing yet, but there is a spot we drove past that she said she’s been wanting to check out. It’s a wine bar and Italian restaurant, not crazy expensive but probably 2 or 3 dollar signs on yelp (lol). My plan, because she still can’t drink in the US, was to buy a couple of those miniature bottles of wine and have a drink before we go in? Not to get drunk but to relax a bit before the night starts. Then have dinner, hope she’s a little surprised and enjoys the place. Then after dinner I was thinking of taking her to a movie. This is mainly because it is going to be a Monday night, we won’t have too many options. I guess what I’m asking is do you think the dinner is a good choice, and what might you do instead of being cliche and going to a movie after?

TL;DR! Surprising her with an Italian wine bar she’s been wanting to go to, might bring drinks for before we go in because she’s under 21, plan to go to a movie after but am open to other ideas.

Submitted April 22, 2019 at 04:32AM

So after hanging out a few times and flirting a bunch we finally set a date. We’re both pretty busy so it’s a Monday night date. I haven’t told her what we’re doing yet, but there is a spot we drove past that she said she’s been wanting to check out. It’s a wine bar and Italian restaurant, not crazy expensive but probably 2 or 3 dollar signs on yelp (lol). My plan, because she still can’t drink in the US, was to buy a couple of those miniature bottles of wine and have a drink before we go in? Not to get drunk but to relax a bit before the night starts. Then have dinner, hope she’s a little surprised and enjoys the place. Then after dinner I was thinking of taking her to a movie. This is mainly because it is going to be a Monday night, we won’t have too many options. I guess what I’m asking is do you think the dinner is a good choice, and what might you do instead of being cliche and going to a movie after?TL;DR! Surprising her with an Italian wine bar she’s been wanting to go to, might bring drinks for before we go in because she’s under 21, plan to go to a movie after but am open to other ideas.