Communicating with a roommate

Here’s a question for the ages:

My partner and I have been together, and living together, for several years. Recently, a good friend of mine moved in. We’re both glad friend is living with us overall. However, sometimes we would like to get intimate, but we’re not sure when roommate/friend is going to come home. And frankly there are few things worse than being in the middle of intimacy when a roommate unexpectedly enters the house. And its a small house.

What are some ways we can communicate with our roommate any of the following in a manner that will be positively received: “Hello roommate, we want to get intimate, when are you coming home from work?” “Roommate, we want to get intimate. When are you leaving today?” “Dearest roommate, when want to get intimate, will you please leave?”

Submitted April 22, 2019 at 05:35AM

Here’s a question for the ages:My partner and I have been together, and living together, for several years. Recently, a good friend of mine moved in. We’re both glad friend is living with us overall. However, sometimes we would like to get intimate, but we’re not sure when roommate/friend is going to come home. And frankly there are few things worse than being in the middle of intimacy when a roommate unexpectedly enters the house. And its a small house.What are some ways we can communicate with our roommate any of the following in a manner that will be positively received: “Hello roommate, we want to get intimate, when are you coming home from work?” “Roommate, we want to get intimate. When are you leaving today?” “Dearest roommate, when want to get intimate, will you please leave?”