Confused about whether she’s questioning my lifestyle

I’ve seen a lady who’s 33 a couple of times over the past month. I’m 34. We seem to like each other and the dates were enjoyable. We have some similar interests in culture and education but also interests that are different.

After I asked her for a third meetup because I thought the second went well, she said she thought I am a nice guy, but wanted to think about it for a bit. I let a week go by and reached out to her by text to see if she’d still be interested in meeting again. Her reply seemed to focus on “how we’d make life choices.” Here’s what she wrote in part:

“What I believe I’m wondering about is if we have differing interests (not just something such as hobbies, but also life interests). I also think we might have different ways of making choices or pursuing life interests. What i really like most about you, as I said, is that you seem to genuinely be a very good person with good values. It’s just that I’m not sure that our lives would move together in the same direction. I think we would tend to make choices differently. I guess it seems what I’m questioning here is our compatibility despite the fact that I know you’re a good person.”

Do you think she has doubts about me? Is there subtext here?

Submitted April 22, 2019 at 02:35AM

I’ve seen a lady who’s 33 a couple of times over the past month. I’m 34. We seem to like each other and the dates were enjoyable. We have some similar interests in culture and education but also interests that are different.After I asked her for a third meetup because I thought the second went well, she said she thought I am a nice guy, but wanted to think about it for a bit. I let a week go by and reached out to her by text to see if she’d still be interested in meeting again. Her reply seemed to focus on “how we’d make life choices.” Here’s what she wrote in part:“What I believe I’m wondering about is if we have differing interests (not just something such as hobbies, but also life interests). I also think we might have different ways of making choices or pursuing life interests. What i really like most about you, as I said, is that you seem to genuinely be a very good person with good values. It’s just that I’m not sure that our lives would move together in the same direction. I think we would tend to make choices differently. I guess it seems what I’m questioning here is our compatibility despite the fact that I know you’re a good person.”Do you think she has doubts about me? Is there subtext here?