My Most Recent Dating Experience.

So I've been coming here lately to get advice on what to do with the girl that I was seeing. Needless to say it didn't work out in the end mainly because she lost interest. I just want to share my experience with you all so you can get a sense of what you might want to do when in something similar.

First off we hit it off well went on dates every week and hung out a ton. So it was a shock to me when she said she wasn't interested anymore but that's alright. Guys and Gals this happens to everyone even the hottest sexiest people in the world. Yes your feelings will get hurt as did mine but you'll eventually get over it. It'll take some time but for all that is good do not try to keeping hitting them up. Its not only going to piss them off but its also going to prevent you from moving on quicker. Just remember the fond times and leave it at that. Also take a break from dating and just let yourself get reset before hitting it up again. Also, if latter down the road, I mean way latter, you both want to reconnect then that's for you to decide.

As for those on the end that lose interest please do what this girl did and be totally upfront and mature about it. She was and while I'm still a little hurt it gave me the closure I needed to get my head into the space to start moving on. Also if you have stuff of theirs please let them know and give it back. Especially if its expensive, there is no need to be petty about things.

Even though people hate hearing it COMMUNICATION IS KEY TO EVERYTHING. Be upfront about what you want, if you lose interest let them know and don't string it along hoping it comes back even if they are a wonderful person its more than likely not going to happen. Don't be afraid to talk about your feelings as well. Its awkward as hell but its better to get it off your chest and made known thus you end up in a situation that is not ideal.

Good luck to you all out there. See you in the New Year.



Submitted December 23, 2019 at 11:40PM

So I've been coming here lately to get advice on what to do with the girl that I was seeing. Needless to say it didn't work out in the end mainly because she lost interest. I just want to share my experience with you all so you can get a sense of what you might want to do when in something similar.First off we hit it off well went on dates every week and hung out a ton. So it was a shock to me when she said she wasn't interested anymore but that's alright. Guys and Gals this happens to everyone even the hottest sexiest people in the world. Yes your feelings will get hurt as did mine but you'll eventually get over it. It'll take some time but for all that is good do not try to keeping hitting them up. Its not only going to piss them off but its also going to prevent you from moving on quicker. Just remember the fond times and leave it at that. Also take a break from dating and just let yourself get reset before hitting it up again. Also, if latter down the road, I mean way latter, you both want to reconnect then that's for you to decide.As for those on the end that lose interest please do what this girl did and be totally upfront and mature about it. She was and while I'm still a little hurt it gave me the closure I needed to get my head into the space to start moving on. Also if you have stuff of theirs please let them know and give it back. Especially if its expensive, there is no need to be petty about things.Even though people hate hearing it COMMUNICATION IS KEY TO EVERYTHING. Be upfront about what you want, if you lose interest let them know and don't string it along hoping it comes back even if they are a wonderful person its more than likely not going to happen. Don't be afraid to talk about your feelings as well. Its awkward as hell but its better to get it off your chest and made known thus you end up in a situation that is not ideal.Good luck to you all out there. See you in the New Year.
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