Are you good at relationships do you have the skills for it?

I hung out yes hung out with one girl outside of school. That was a year ago now I’m in university 2nd half of first semester if that makes since. I haven’t met anyone I’m interested in to focused on school. I’m better and more comfortable alone. Some people are good at some things some people are bad at somethings. Are you good at socializing? Communicating? Do you go out a lot with your friends? If the answer is no to any of these ask yourself do you really want a relationship? What would you and your partner do? Also if your answer is no to any of these then it seems your better at keeping yourself company. If after doing some reflection and you want a relationship. What does that relationship look like? Is it realistic? Are you acting drastically different with your partner then with yourself and friends? I don’t think 1 person can convert an introvert to an extrovert especially if a whole friend group and family can’t do it. Last question are you interested in outgoing people that are going to want to bring you out of your shell and take you to places you wouldn’t usually go? Are there energy levels much much more higher than yours? We’ll they be upset if you never want to do anything? OPPOSITES DO NOT ATTRACT!!!! You can find someone that will stay at home with you and read books or watch anime whatever. But opposites do not attract! Have you had any success with anyone who’s more social or less social than you are?

Submitted January 25, 2023 at 01:08AM

I hung out yes hung out with one girl outside of school. That was a year ago now I’m in university 2nd half of first semester if that makes since. I haven’t met anyone I’m interested in to focused on school. I’m better and more comfortable alone. Some people are good at some things some people are bad at somethings. Are you good at socializing? Communicating? Do you go out a lot with your friends? If the answer is no to any of these ask yourself do you really want a relationship? What would you and your partner do? Also if your answer is no to any of these then it seems your better at keeping yourself company. If after doing some reflection and you want a relationship. What does that relationship look like? Is it realistic? Are you acting drastically different with your partner then with yourself and friends? I don’t think 1 person can convert an introvert to an extrovert especially if a whole friend group and family can’t do it. Last question are you interested in outgoing people that are going to want to bring you out of your shell and take you to places you wouldn’t usually go? Are there energy levels much much more higher than yours? We’ll they be upset if you never want to do anything? OPPOSITES DO NOT ATTRACT!!!! You can find someone that will stay at home with you and read books or watch anime whatever. But opposites do not attract! Have you had any success with anyone who’s more social or less social than you are?