If this happened to you, how would you feel?

Imagine you had a crush on someone for 4 years. They finally start talking to you and you’re excited so you talk to them everyday.

A month later they tell you they have a crush you. But you don’t say “me too”. They take it as a close rejection so they reject you first before you can actually say how you feel. They put you in the friend zone a day later.

You unfollow them on Instagram because it hurts to see their face. Then a few months later they tell you that they’re sorry and they actually do still like you. They say you should hang out together but they don’t plan anything.

Then they treat you like a friend and invite you out with their friends. But they realize what they did wrong by being friendly and tell you they want to have a romantic relationship, not a friendship and invite you out alone on a date.

You don’t go on the date and ignore their texts. Then a few months later they send a friendly text that was obviously sent to all friends.

Would you ever talk to them again? If they talked to you again, what would you want them to say to you? Would you still even have feelings for them? Would you ghost them?

TLDR: If you had a crush on someone who wants to date you but treats you like a friend on and off, what would you do?

Submitted January 24, 2022 at 12:13AM

Imagine you had a crush on someone for 4 years. They finally start talking to you and you’re excited so you talk to them everyday.A month later they tell you they have a crush you. But you don’t say “me too”. They take it as a close rejection so they reject you first before you can actually say how you feel. They put you in the friend zone a day later.You unfollow them on Instagram because it hurts to see their face. Then a few months later they tell you that they’re sorry and they actually do still like you. They say you should hang out together but they don’t plan anything.Then they treat you like a friend and invite you out with their friends. But they realize what they did wrong by being friendly and tell you they want to have a romantic relationship, not a friendship and invite you out alone on a date.You don’t go on the date and ignore their texts. Then a few months later they send a friendly text that was obviously sent to all friends.Would you ever talk to them again? If they talked to you again, what would you want them to say to you? Would you still even have feelings for them? Would you ghost them?TLDR: If you had a crush on someone who wants to date you but treats you like a friend on and off, what would you do?