In my opinion, this is the worst type of feeling.

So, I have had deep feelings for a great friend of mine for a while now, she’s a year younger and is about to go to the same college as me in the fall. We’re great friends and we talk on a regular basis and over time I’ve developed feelings for her. But, the problem is I can never express these to her because I know for a fact she doesn’t feel the same way. You see she told a friend of mine that I’m not really her type and could only be just a friend. My friend told me she has no idea that I feel the way I do about her. If I were to tell her how I feel it would ruin the friendship I do have with her because there’s just no way to come back from that. But I hate having these suppressed and I just wish I could tell her how I feel but I know that there’s no way I could do that. I apologize if I’m dampening the mood I just needed to get that out somehow. If anyone else has the same problem just know that you’re not alone.

Submitted May 21, 2019 at 06:04AM

So, I have had deep feelings for a great friend of mine for a while now, she’s a year younger and is about to go to the same college as me in the fall. We’re great friends and we talk on a regular basis and over time I’ve developed feelings for her. But, the problem is I can never express these to her because I know for a fact she doesn’t feel the same way. You see she told a friend of mine that I’m not really her type and could only be just a friend. My friend told me she has no idea that I feel the way I do about her. If I were to tell her how I feel it would ruin the friendship I do have with her because there’s just no way to come back from that. But I hate having these suppressed and I just wish I could tell her how I feel but I know that there’s no way I could do that. I apologize if I’m dampening the mood I just needed to get that out somehow. If anyone else has the same problem just know that you’re not alone.