Got ghosted after my first ever date

I [M21] went on a date with a female [F21] last week.

I met her on tinder, she was the first person to ever reply to me on tinder and I ended up arranging a date for us to go to dinner.

I looked for vouchers on groupon and found a Italian restaurant.

It is very important for me to be socially distant so I didn't give her a hug when greeting her, she came in for one but I had to remind her that we need to be careful due to the pandemic.

She is the first female I've ever been on a date with so I was very excited. I asked the waiter to take a picture of us but she didn't want to be in the photo (which I found extremely insulting), until the waiter convinced her to.

When we were waiting for our meals, I took a picture of her to show my friends on discord. I dont think she liked it because the flash was on and she asked what I was doing and I told her I wanted to show my friends how beautiful she was but I found it rude that she didn't accept my compliment.

There was not much conversation whilst we were waiting for our dinner to arrive so I wanted to light things up and I showed her a picture using faceapp of what our potential children will look like. I didnt get why she seemed very annoyed after this and she told me to stop so I did.

During dinner I felt she didn't talk much and it was me doing most of the talking. I talked about computers, programming, anime and some other science related stuff I am interested in. She didnt ask me questions at all and didnt really engage with what I was saying which I found very rude, so I decided not to ask her about her interests since she fobbed me off.

When it came to pay I realised the voucher I had wasn't valid on weekends, so the cost came up to a lot more than I was expecting. I asked her if we can go halves and she reluctantly did. I didnt give her a hug or anything when we left, I told her I would call her the next day but I dont think she heard me as she walked off.

I called her the next morning to see how she was but she didnt answer. I texted her a few hours later and she didn't reply to me but opened my message. I then sent her a picture of my new PC build on snapchat and a selfie of me but then she blocked me. I don't know what I did wrong for her to ignore me and for her to block me, I find it so rude and insulting.

This was after my first ever date so I don't know where I went wrong, especially as I feel she wasted my time and thought she was going to get free dinner but ended up paying which is why she was mad.

Submitted October 17, 2020 at 12:08AM

I [M21] went on a date with a female [F21] last week.I met her on tinder, she was the first person to ever reply to me on tinder and I ended up arranging a date for us to go to dinner.I looked for vouchers on groupon and found a Italian restaurant.It is very important for me to be socially distant so I didn't give her a hug when greeting her, she came in for one but I had to remind her that we need to be careful due to the pandemic.She is the first female I've ever been on a date with so I was very excited. I asked the waiter to take a picture of us but she didn't want to be in the photo (which I found extremely insulting), until the waiter convinced her to.When we were waiting for our meals, I took a picture of her to show my friends on discord. I dont think she liked it because the flash was on and she asked what I was doing and I told her I wanted to show my friends how beautiful she was but I found it rude that she didn't accept my compliment.There was not much conversation whilst we were waiting for our dinner to arrive so I wanted to light things up and I showed her a picture using faceapp of what our potential children will look like. I didnt get why she seemed very annoyed after this and she told me to stop so I did.During dinner I felt she didn't talk much and it was me doing most of the talking. I talked about computers, programming, anime and some other science related stuff I am interested in. She didnt ask me questions at all and didnt really engage with what I was saying which I found very rude, so I decided not to ask her about her interests since she fobbed me off.When it came to pay I realised the voucher I had wasn't valid on weekends, so the cost came up to a lot more than I was expecting. I asked her if we can go halves and she reluctantly did. I didnt give her a hug or anything when we left, I told her I would call her the next day but I dont think she heard me as she walked off.I called her the next morning to see how she was but she didnt answer. I texted her a few hours later and she didn't reply to me but opened my message. I then sent her a picture of my new PC build on snapchat and a selfie of me but then she blocked me. I don't know what I did wrong for her to ignore me and for her to block me, I find it so rude and insulting.This was after my first ever date so I don't know where I went wrong, especially as I feel she wasted my time and thought she was going to get free dinner but ended up paying which is why she was mad.