I (29f) met up with a guy from the internet for sex

Throwaway account here so I don't get snooped on for sharing my question. Last week I messaged someone from reddit after a comment they made that I read on r/sex thinking nothing more than it was gonna be a bit of messaging fun, however, one thing led to another and we happened to live in the same city and I was really intrigued! Especially by what he wrote in his comment, he seemed to know exactly what he was talking about. Half of me was thinking is this guy actually like this? Is he what he describes in his comment? Now I have met people off of tinder before but not on a whim like this.

So fast forward through some private messaging on here and texting we met up for a drink at a local cafe place for the sake of meeting in a public opening at first, got chatting about a few kinks, likes and dislikes in the bedroom and finally got to his place and it was ON. And oh my god I have never been taken like that before in my life! I felt ravished unapologetically, it was just so spontaneous that everything felt natural, like everything moved from one this to the next so easily. I felt like he just took what he wanted from holding my chin with a hand and kissing me hard against the walls to wrapping his arm around my neck from behind and flicking my clit when I was so wet and wanted him inside me already, to pinning my neck against the walls and spanking me rough telling me that he wants me to stand on my toes and take it, there was a point where we transitioned from doggystyle on the floor to a wheelbarrow position, oh my god, he just took my hips standing up and I was holding myself up with just my hands wrapping my legs around his hips. Fuck. I have never felt so slutty and submissive and dominated and pretty like this before with any other previous partner, I came 5 times just from intercourse alone. And this was only the first round of 4 we had that night.

I'm a little bit awe struck by this blur of an experience, this stranger that I just met, felt like someone I knew for quite a long time, even though it was completely lust ridden, he was so relaxed and chilled out after sex that I just wanted him more. I don't really understand it but I want more, I was teary eyed the whole way through getting fucked from feeling so primally submissive; I'm not sure if I was in subspace or because the mental stimulation of being dominated so much overwhelmed me. However, post sex, I found out that he already has two other partners and doesn't want another girlfriend or anything relationship wise and I felt a little heartbroken inside.

I don't want to be his girlfriend but I DEFINITELY want to see him again, I've been wet all fucking day thinking about what he did to me that night and I can't get it out of my head. We texted after and he says that he would be down to meet up with me again but he didn't say when, just a 'I'll let you know'. I've never had trouble getting guys to see me again after sex, most of the time it see them that wanted to see me again, so I'm a little bit lost here. What can I do to get him to see me again? I don't want us to have a gap in keeping contact and then he loses interest or forgets me :(

Tl;dr: Met up with a guy from reddit, had the most intense sex of my life, he already has two partners but I wanna see him again, how do I get him to see me again?

Submitted March 31, 2020 at 12:06AM

Throwaway account here so I don't get snooped on for sharing my question. Last week I messaged someone from reddit after a comment they made that I read on r/sex thinking nothing more than it was gonna be a bit of messaging fun, however, one thing led to another and we happened to live in the same city and I was really intrigued! Especially by what he wrote in his comment, he seemed to know exactly what he was talking about. Half of me was thinking is this guy actually like this? Is he what he describes in his comment? Now I have met people off of tinder before but not on a whim like this.So fast forward through some private messaging on here and texting we met up for a drink at a local cafe place for the sake of meeting in a public opening at first, got chatting about a few kinks, likes and dislikes in the bedroom and finally got to his place and it was ON. And oh my god I have never been taken like that before in my life! I felt ravished unapologetically, it was just so spontaneous that everything felt natural, like everything moved from one this to the next so easily. I felt like he just took what he wanted from holding my chin with a hand and kissing me hard against the walls to wrapping his arm around my neck from behind and flicking my clit when I was so wet and wanted him inside me already, to pinning my neck against the walls and spanking me rough telling me that he wants me to stand on my toes and take it, there was a point where we transitioned from doggystyle on the floor to a wheelbarrow position, oh my god, he just took my hips standing up and I was holding myself up with just my hands wrapping my legs around his hips. Fuck. I have never felt so slutty and submissive and dominated and pretty like this before with any other previous partner, I came 5 times just from intercourse alone. And this was only the first round of 4 we had that night.I'm a little bit awe struck by this blur of an experience, this stranger that I just met, felt like someone I knew for quite a long time, even though it was completely lust ridden, he was so relaxed and chilled out after sex that I just wanted him more. I don't really understand it but I want more, I was teary eyed the whole way through getting fucked from feeling so primally submissive; I'm not sure if I was in subspace or because the mental stimulation of being dominated so much overwhelmed me. However, post sex, I found out that he already has two other partners and doesn't want another girlfriend or anything relationship wise and I felt a little heartbroken inside.I don't want to be his girlfriend but I DEFINITELY want to see him again, I've been wet all fucking day thinking about what he did to me that night and I can't get it out of my head. We texted after and he says that he would be down to meet up with me again but he didn't say when, just a 'I'll let you know'. I've never had trouble getting guys to see me again after sex, most of the time it see them that wanted to see me again, so I'm a little bit lost here. What can I do to get him to see me again? I don't want us to have a gap in keeping contact and then he loses interest or forgets me :(Tl;dr: Met up with a guy from reddit, had the most intense sex of my life, he already has two partners but I wanna see him again, how do I get him to see me again?