Boyfriend doesn't want me to get breast implants but he chased after woman who had implants before we were together.

I've noticed that the woman my current boyfriend chased after and gave attention (before we were together) to had fake boobs. I expressed that I was thinking of getting them since I think it will be fun for both of us and I honestly just like boobs. I'm a B now and would only go up to about a full C trying to stay as soft and natural as possible.

To my complete surprise he was not for it. He full on stated that he didn't even like fake boobs. He said that in his experience with them, they don't feel as good or move like natural breasts do. He said it made an easy route to the woman because he knew that's what they wanted to be complimented on and to get attention with. He said that even the girls who swore they felt natural that they didn't feel natural to them. He just told them they did and basically told them what they wanted to hear. I asked him if he was saying that because he didn't want me to get attention or to be more attractive to other men and he swore up and down that wasn't the reason. He said he just prefers the movement and feel of natural breasts. I'm not insecure by any means and he knows this. There's no sense in not trying to hurt my feelings because honestly it's a rarity so there's no reason why he would be trying to make me feel good about myself. Now let me repeat, the woman he chased after and pursued before we were together HAD FAKE BOOBS.

These are the different options I came up with to explain this unexpected response from him.

  1. He thinks I'll be getting so much attention and that my new found larger breasts will cause me to break up with him.
  2. He's telling the truth and really doesn't;t prefer fake boobs. (I'm doubtful on this one but open to all possibilities.)

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So my question is, Men what are your honest opinions/reviews on fake boobs. And women, what's your opinion on this whole thing? Everyone, are there possible explanations that I'm missing?

**TL;DR; : Boyfriend doesn't want me to get breast implants but he chased after women with implants before we were together.



Submitted October 11, 2019 at 11:45PM

I've noticed that the woman my current boyfriend chased after and gave attention (before we were together) to had fake boobs. I expressed that I was thinking of getting them since I think it will be fun for both of us and I honestly just like boobs. I'm a B now and would only go up to about a full C trying to stay as soft and natural as possible.To my complete surprise he was not for it. He full on stated that he didn't even like fake boobs. He said that in his experience with them, they don't feel as good or move like natural breasts do. He said it made an easy route to the woman because he knew that's what they wanted to be complimented on and to get attention with. He said that even the girls who swore they felt natural that they didn't feel natural to them. He just told them they did and basically told them what they wanted to hear. I asked him if he was saying that because he didn't want me to get attention or to be more attractive to other men and he swore up and down that wasn't the reason. He said he just prefers the movement and feel of natural breasts. I'm not insecure by any means and he knows this. There's no sense in not trying to hurt my feelings because honestly it's a rarity so there's no reason why he would be trying to make me feel good about myself. Now let me repeat, the woman he chased after and pursued before we were together HAD FAKE BOOBS.These are the different options I came up with to explain this unexpected response from him.He thinks I'll be getting so much attention and that my new found larger breasts will cause me to break up with him.He's telling the truth and really doesn't;t prefer fake boobs. (I'm doubtful on this one but open to all possibilities.)​So my question is, Men what are your honest opinions/reviews on fake boobs. And women, what's your opinion on this whole thing? Everyone, are there possible explanations that I'm missing?**TL;DR; : Boyfriend doesn't want me to get breast implants but he chased after women with implants before we were together.
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