Staying over at a guy’s place for the first time? What’s the etiquette?

I’m really ocd about showering every single morning and washing my hair, because I get really stinky really quickly. Especially if we have sex, I’ll feel sticky.

Is it rude to ask to use a guy’s shower and towels?

I’ve never done this before. He suggested that I stay at his place after our date because it’s nearby and it’d be quite late for me to head home alone. Makes sense.

However, also... I don’t want to be rude, but I don’t want to sit on public transport all stinky. Yknow?

Submitted February 25, 2020 at 11:04PM

I’m really ocd about showering every single morning and washing my hair, because I get really stinky really quickly. Especially if we have sex, I’ll feel sticky.Is it rude to ask to use a guy’s shower and towels?I’ve never done this before. He suggested that I stay at his place after our date because it’s nearby and it’d be quite late for me to head home alone. Makes sense.However, also... I don’t want to be rude, but I don’t want to sit on public transport all stinky. Yknow?