Maybe I’m overthinking. I do have OCD just as a heads up.

My fiancé and I were talking about the whole Dave Chapelle stuff that’s been going on. And so I said “would you ever date a trans woman?” He said “i mean yes, if I didn’t know. But if she told me, I would politely decline.”

He told me a month ago when we were having a conversation about porn that he had mistakenly watched a pegging video. He saw a picture of a porn star with a dildo on (it was on Twitter) there was a link to it (he thought it was girl on girl action) and when he clicked on it, it was her pegging a man.

What if he’s secretly gay and I don’t know?

I feel like I’m about to go into a spiral and im not sure why.

I’m overthinking huh?

Submitted October 26, 2021 at 12:07AM

My fiancé and I were talking about the whole Dave Chapelle stuff that’s been going on. And so I said “would you ever date a trans woman?” He said “i mean yes, if I didn’t know. But if she told me, I would politely decline.”He told me a month ago when we were having a conversation about porn that he had mistakenly watched a pegging video. He saw a picture of a porn star with a dildo on (it was on Twitter) there was a link to it (he thought it was girl on girl action) and when he clicked on it, it was her pegging a man.What if he’s secretly gay and I don’t know?I feel like I’m about to go into a spiral and im not sure why.I’m overthinking huh?