I would like to share some thoughts with you...

Hey their random people on the web, Random (18 M) here. Since i am single and have never been in a meaningful irl relationship i am stuck atm, however you might be suddenly thinking "well what advice is this random op who hasn't even dated going to give me that i already don't know?" And well, this isn't an article of advice. I'm asking you for help and here's why:

For the most part the reason why im writing this is because atm i am stuck. It's pretty shit to know that no matter what i do right now i cannot act upon any advice given to me, no,matter what the subject may be. I don't have a working social life atm, and i haven't had one ever since i've been stuck in this god forsaken house with my overbearing parents.

These leeches haven't allowed me to exsperiment or activly socialize with people in my school,much less my community, to the point where i couldn't go over to any of my friends' houses to just simply hang out with them since one of their requirements, as embarressing as it is to say, was to know their parents. (To the point of them making it where they had to call and meet them BEFORE they even planned the damn day and most of the time it was on a weekend for convience sake -_- ((I don't blame my friends for this being a deal breaker at all.)))

Small minded, small town parents have not just ruined me getting any practice in planning, socializing, finacial management, responsibility, but also relationship building,dating, and even a chance of exploring who i am.

I feel stunted lmfao, i feel like I'm about to head off to college and interact with people like a useless NPC. The internet is the only place right now where i can escape their limitations but in a month or two that's all going to change...I'll have to deal with coping with the real world after 18 years of having my hand held. Hell, they haven't even helped ease me into it, since i couldn't get a fucking part time job at 16 cause i just got my car last month and my fucking liscense at the turn of last year! (December 2018!)

I have no exsperience in the real world and just around the corner I'll be thrusted into it with no help from them. I'm not just asking for dating advice, I'm asking for help. Honestly i really need it right now. I don't mean to clog up this thred with something that doesn't entirely partain to dating. But i'll admit it, I'm scared and don't know who to talk to or where to put my thoughts.

Their isn't really much more to say, I'm an ignorant adult who doesn't know what to do. Sitting here typing all this i feel emberassed for feeling incompetent but then i realise their's nothing i could really do about it if they where just going to put me on the back burner till the last minute. And don't get me wrong i've made sure to do my own research when it comes to finacials and learn the basic fundementals so i can stay self sufficent. (As well as having a wonderful highschool guidance counselor to guide me through the last year with not only college but also a plethora of other things as well.)

It's just when it comes down to it, i feel scared, sad, and confused and felt i needed to speak my thoughts on this subject which troubled me so.

Also if someone could point me to a more appropriate thread to post this i would more then appreciate it. This isn't something that is appropriate for this thread at all, however like i said, i have no idea where to post something like this...any advice before then would be most appreciated specially on dating/social interaction, before i redirect this post to a more appropriate thred.

Sorry for the change in pace but i hope you all understand this as a cry for help.

Submitted July 25, 2019 at 11:19PM

Hey their random people on the web, Random (18 M) here. Since i am single and have never been in a meaningful irl relationship i am stuck atm, however you might be suddenly thinking "well what advice is this random op who hasn't even dated going to give me that i already don't know?" And well, this isn't an article of advice. I'm asking you for help and here's why:For the most part the reason why im writing this is because atm i am stuck. It's pretty shit to know that no matter what i do right now i cannot act upon any advice given to me, no,matter what the subject may be. I don't have a working social life atm, and i haven't had one ever since i've been stuck in this god forsaken house with my overbearing parents.These leeches haven't allowed me to exsperiment or activly socialize with people in my school,much less my community, to the point where i couldn't go over to any of my friends' houses to just simply hang out with them since one of their requirements, as embarressing as it is to say, was to know their parents. (To the point of them making it where they had to call and meet them BEFORE they even planned the damn day and most of the time it was on a weekend for convience sake -_- ((I don't blame my friends for this being a deal breaker at all.)))Small minded, small town parents have not just ruined me getting any practice in planning, socializing, finacial management, responsibility, but also relationship building,dating, and even a chance of exploring who i am.I feel stunted lmfao, i feel like I'm about to head off to college and interact with people like a useless NPC. The internet is the only place right now where i can escape their limitations but in a month or two that's all going to change...I'll have to deal with coping with the real world after 18 years of having my hand held. Hell, they haven't even helped ease me into it, since i couldn't get a fucking part time job at 16 cause i just got my car last month and my fucking liscense at the turn of last year! (December 2018!)I have no exsperience in the real world and just around the corner I'll be thrusted into it with no help from them. I'm not just asking for dating advice, I'm asking for help. Honestly i really need it right now. I don't mean to clog up this thred with something that doesn't entirely partain to dating. But i'll admit it, I'm scared and don't know who to talk to or where to put my thoughts.Their isn't really much more to say, I'm an ignorant adult who doesn't know what to do. Sitting here typing all this i feel emberassed for feeling incompetent but then i realise their's nothing i could really do about it if they where just going to put me on the back burner till the last minute. And don't get me wrong i've made sure to do my own research when it comes to finacials and learn the basic fundementals so i can stay self sufficent. (As well as having a wonderful highschool guidance counselor to guide me through the last year with not only college but also a plethora of other things as well.)It's just when it comes down to it, i feel scared, sad, and confused and felt i needed to speak my thoughts on this subject which troubled me so.Also if someone could point me to a more appropriate thread to post this i would more then appreciate it. This isn't something that is appropriate for this thread at all, however like i said, i have no idea where to post something like this...any advice before then would be most appreciated specially on dating/social interaction, before i redirect this post to a more appropriate thred.Sorry for the change in pace but i hope you all understand this as a cry for help.