Ladies, I hope you realize your worth...

Before I start, this is a post to empower women. I get that men go through the same and date women who are not worthy of them, however, this post is my thoughts on women and who they date. It has nothing to do with misandry or anything else I may potentially get trolled on.

I think about this a lot. I often see people in relationships where men are dating these incredible women (IMO like how did you get this girl), yet they treat them like absolute garbage.

I also think about it especially because I see my friends who have “settled”. I’m not sure why they have and maybe they are happy? Maybe I just see them as these Goddesses who deserve so much more? But maybe they want a life with a husband and baby and they realize their biological clock is ticking, so that makes them happy. Maybe because they think it’s all they deserve?

To other women who I see in relationships just for the sake of it, I can see you’re not happy. Maybe you you think your life is only complete if you have a boyfriend or husband. Maybe that’s why you stay.

To that coworker who has the boyfriend who never wants to come to work events because he’s always “too busy”. Yet when he does finally show up, he’s completely disinterested in you and the people you work with every day.

To the couple on the train today, you were both tipsy, I saw her looking lovingly into his eyes, but he barely made eye contact. She was a beautiful soul, I could see that, but she was insecure. I could tell she was smitten with him, he had dimples and a cute smile, but he’d barely looked at her.

To that girl, and every woman who questions if her man is into her or not, I hope you realize your worth. I hope you realize that you just being a woman, is enough. YOU ARE ENOUGH. And if you feel the need to prove that to anyone, THEY are not worthy of YOU.

EDIT: Spelling.



Submitted July 14, 2019 at 12:07AM

Before I start, this is a post to empower women. I get that men go through the same and date women who are not worthy of them, however, this post is my thoughts on women and who they date. It has nothing to do with misandry or anything else I may potentially get trolled on.I think about this a lot. I often see people in relationships where men are dating these incredible women (IMO like how did you get this girl), yet they treat them like absolute garbage.I also think about it especially because I see my friends who have “settled”. I’m not sure why they have and maybe they are happy? Maybe I just see them as these Goddesses who deserve so much more? But maybe they want a life with a husband and baby and they realize their biological clock is ticking, so that makes them happy. Maybe because they think it’s all they deserve?To other women who I see in relationships just for the sake of it, I can see you’re not happy. Maybe you you think your life is only complete if you have a boyfriend or husband. Maybe that’s why you stay.To that coworker who has the boyfriend who never wants to come to work events because he’s always “too busy”. Yet when he does finally show up, he’s completely disinterested in you and the people you work with every day.To the couple on the train today, you were both tipsy, I saw her looking lovingly into his eyes, but he barely made eye contact. She was a beautiful soul, I could see that, but she was insecure. I could tell she was smitten with him, he had dimples and a cute smile, but he’d barely looked at her.To that girl, and every woman who questions if her man is into her or not, I hope you realize your worth. I hope you realize that you just being a woman, is enough. YOU ARE ENOUGH. And if you feel the need to prove that to anyone, THEY are not worthy of YOU.EDIT: Spelling.
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