Pain when doing oral with TMJ

So this is my first post to this community and I'm on my mobile so it might not be formatted amazingly.

I have TMJ (Temporomandibular Joint Disorder) and this largely affects the right side of my jaw. I had 3 or 4 years of ineffective treatment and I was just told to use pain relief if its painful. The right side of my jaw, near my right ear, clicks loudly and my mouth opens ever so slightly uneven. Also, if I open my jaw far enough (and not that far) it dislocates. This is mostly painless if done in short periods such as yawning but is important later. It's nothing dramatic, the jaw just pulls forward smoothly and back into place without assistance.

I've (female) been with my partner (Male) for just over a year now and we were sexually active before he moved back to the states half a year ago. I had never given a man oral and was very new to the experience when I finally got down to it. However, whenever i give oral my jaw is dislocated for a long period of time, usually the whole time I'm going down him and it only takes maybe a minute before its painful. And it can hurt for a few hours to days afterwards.

Does anyone know how I could go down on him with less pain and for longer? Is there a technique? If I relocate my jaw my teeth are too close together and he doesn't like that feeling. I just want to do something I know he enjoys, whilst enjoying it myself. We are long distance but when we finally meet probably a few more months from now, it would be nice to maybe even surprise him with being able to go for longer and not be in pain.

Not sure if theres anyone who has any experiences like this?

Submitted April 18, 2020 at 11:42PM

So this is my first post to this community and I'm on my mobile so it might not be formatted amazingly.I have TMJ (Temporomandibular Joint Disorder) and this largely affects the right side of my jaw. I had 3 or 4 years of ineffective treatment and I was just told to use pain relief if its painful. The right side of my jaw, near my right ear, clicks loudly and my mouth opens ever so slightly uneven. Also, if I open my jaw far enough (and not that far) it dislocates. This is mostly painless if done in short periods such as yawning but is important later. It's nothing dramatic, the jaw just pulls forward smoothly and back into place without assistance.I've (female) been with my partner (Male) for just over a year now and we were sexually active before he moved back to the states half a year ago. I had never given a man oral and was very new to the experience when I finally got down to it. However, whenever i give oral my jaw is dislocated for a long period of time, usually the whole time I'm going down him and it only takes maybe a minute before its painful. And it can hurt for a few hours to days afterwards.Does anyone know how I could go down on him with less pain and for longer? Is there a technique? If I relocate my jaw my teeth are too close together and he doesn't like that feeling. I just want to do something I know he enjoys, whilst enjoying it myself. We are long distance but when we finally meet probably a few more months from now, it would be nice to maybe even surprise him with being able to go for longer and not be in pain.Not sure if theres anyone who has any experiences like this?