Does my close guy friend want to have sex with me?

I'm confused. These past few months we've been flirtatiously joking around with each other over text but lately it's been getting very sexual, it's like we're sexting by now. We talk about the things we want to do to each other (sexual things) and he jokes around about how "hard" he gets thinking about me. We don't like each other in the romantic way, (I know that because he tells me), I don't like him romantically either, I just kind of crave him for sex.

But, when I ask him if he's joking or not, he says he is, and that he isn't ready to do "it" yet. When he asks if I'm joking, I say I am (though I'm not), and he's like "good, I don't want it to seem like I'm leading you on". It's confusing, he makes it seem so real when we are sexting, but then he says things like that.

Your opinion would be appreciated, thank you!



Submitted July 11, 2021 at 12:51AM

I'm confused. These past few months we've been flirtatiously joking around with each other over text but lately it's been getting very sexual, it's like we're sexting by now. We talk about the things we want to do to each other (sexual things) and he jokes around about how "hard" he gets thinking about me. We don't like each other in the romantic way, (I know that because he tells me), I don't like him romantically either, I just kind of crave him for sex.But, when I ask him if he's joking or not, he says he is, and that he isn't ready to do "it" yet. When he asks if I'm joking, I say I am (though I'm not), and he's like "good, I don't want it to seem like I'm leading you on". It's confusing, he makes it seem so real when we are sexting, but then he says things like that.Your opinion would be appreciated, thank you!

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