Is she into me or am I just dumb.

I (M15) recently started going to a new school. I was made fun of in my previous school and only my small group of friends actually even liked me. Idk if anyone there ever found me attractive, but i was in a long distance relationship with a girl for 3 years and we broke up in may. She was really attractive and I think I'm pretty average.

So in my new school there's this one girl (m15). We talked for the first time in like the first week of school. She noticed I was there early and came up to me to talk. I was pretty awkward and was breathing heavily (like I do often when I'm stressed) but we joked around a bit, and she really reminded me of my ex in the way she talked. The thing was it was tuesday and we never talked for the rest of the week. Not even a "Hi". Next week was almost the same but this time she texted me on the class group chat to come to talk cause she was sitting there alone. We talked a bit again, she told me to watch a certain tv show, then again no talking for the rest of the week.

This kinda changed when I moved from german lessons to french lessons. The groups were also for IT and there was only one place left which is a laptop right at the same desk as her. She told me I can sit with her and help her with her PC cause she sucks at everything computer related. I helped her and we joked around some more.

The fatal blow tho was next tuesday when she didn't arrive early. I texted her to hurry up. She arrived a hour later with her friends and asked me why the hell I was messaging her. It was a really sad day for me lol.

Every other week we talked a bit on tuesday mornings but when her friends arrived at school she just ignored me every time.

She comments under my photos where I have ironic captions like "that's me I guess" or "It's halloween" And her comments were basically ironic stuff like "wow didn't know that" or "wow you're fast".

She recently made up a cute nickname for me in IT and it was the first time in a while I felt she really liked me.

Well sorry for the long post, and I might have missed some details cause it's pretty late where I live. But is she into me?



Submitted November 01, 2019 at 12:06AM

I (M15) recently started going to a new school. I was made fun of in my previous school and only my small group of friends actually even liked me. Idk if anyone there ever found me attractive, but i was in a long distance relationship with a girl for 3 years and we broke up in may. She was really attractive and I think I'm pretty average.So in my new school there's this one girl (m15). We talked for the first time in like the first week of school. She noticed I was there early and came up to me to talk. I was pretty awkward and was breathing heavily (like I do often when I'm stressed) but we joked around a bit, and she really reminded me of my ex in the way she talked. The thing was it was tuesday and we never talked for the rest of the week. Not even a "Hi". Next week was almost the same but this time she texted me on the class group chat to come to talk cause she was sitting there alone. We talked a bit again, she told me to watch a certain tv show, then again no talking for the rest of the week.This kinda changed when I moved from german lessons to french lessons. The groups were also for IT and there was only one place left which is a laptop right at the same desk as her. She told me I can sit with her and help her with her PC cause she sucks at everything computer related. I helped her and we joked around some more.The fatal blow tho was next tuesday when she didn't arrive early. I texted her to hurry up. She arrived a hour later with her friends and asked me why the hell I was messaging her. It was a really sad day for me lol.Every other week we talked a bit on tuesday mornings but when her friends arrived at school she just ignored me every time.She comments under my photos where I have ironic captions like "that's me I guess" or "It's halloween" And her comments were basically ironic stuff like "wow didn't know that" or "wow you're fast".She recently made up a cute nickname for me in IT and it was the first time in a while I felt she really liked me.Well sorry for the long post, and I might have missed some details cause it's pretty late where I live. But is she into me?
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