This isn't right.....

So, I met this nice guy on Tinder. His name was Paul. We have been on a few dates and I'm certain he is lying to me about his life or something....my gut is telling me so... I noticed that he puts A LOT of effort to prove that he is a good father. My thought process is you don't have to, either you are or you are not. Anywho, I'm concerned because he says he has his life together but in my eyes he doesn't. He drinks A LOT. I mean for example, last night on our date we hit up two restaurants and he had 5 drinks. We went to the liquor store and he got himself a bottle of vodka. What made me rethink all of this was while we were having dinner he told me the story about how his baby mama didn't want his son around his own mother. So, instead of him taking care of him, his mother is. Also, he doesn't have a car so I always drive him home after dinner. I told him that instead of spending so much on Ubers he should invest that money into a car. Also on our date he tells me that he really likes me but slid in he went on dates while I was gone. Through conversation he seems really into himself, like the first thing he asked was "did I get him anything from Canada?" He laughed but I don't think he was joking. Asking did I think of him the whole time, just that kinda dialouge that made me feel uncomfortable. I was in Canada for five weeks from May 14 through June 15. He wants us to go further but I'm not sure. When I dropped him off at home because his mother called and said she was dropping his son back to his place, I noticed that his breath smelled strongly of mint. He shoved so much mint gym and tic tacks in his mouth. He made sure his collar looked nice and I was thinking, did he do that so his son doesn't smell the drinks or his mother??? I don't have a good feeling about him so yeah....

Submitted June 20, 2019 at 11:18PM

So, I met this nice guy on Tinder. His name was Paul. We have been on a few dates and I'm certain he is lying to me about his life or something....my gut is telling me so... I noticed that he puts A LOT of effort to prove that he is a good father. My thought process is you don't have to, either you are or you are not. Anywho, I'm concerned because he says he has his life together but in my eyes he doesn't. He drinks A LOT. I mean for example, last night on our date we hit up two restaurants and he had 5 drinks. We went to the liquor store and he got himself a bottle of vodka. What made me rethink all of this was while we were having dinner he told me the story about how his baby mama didn't want his son around his own mother. So, instead of him taking care of him, his mother is. Also, he doesn't have a car so I always drive him home after dinner. I told him that instead of spending so much on Ubers he should invest that money into a car. Also on our date he tells me that he really likes me but slid in he went on dates while I was gone. Through conversation he seems really into himself, like the first thing he asked was "did I get him anything from Canada?" He laughed but I don't think he was joking. Asking did I think of him the whole time, just that kinda dialouge that made me feel uncomfortable. I was in Canada for five weeks from May 14 through June 15. He wants us to go further but I'm not sure. When I dropped him off at home because his mother called and said she was dropping his son back to his place, I noticed that his breath smelled strongly of mint. He shoved so much mint gym and tic tacks in his mouth. He made sure his collar looked nice and I was thinking, did he do that so his son doesn't smell the drinks or his mother??? I don't have a good feeling about him so yeah....