Pinch me because I'm probably dreaming.

I've once again interdependent stage of online dating where I've initiated a conversation with somebody, but I have no idea how long it is until she loses interest in ghosts me. However, she hasn't lost interest yet And it's her profile pictures on Tinder RTB believed she's quite attractive. from what she's had to tell me so far, she plays bass guitar, she has 13 tattoos, And she likes a lot of the same TV shows that I like. If everything is legit so far, she definitely sounds like the kind of woman I've been desperately wanting to meet for quite some time.

But, given my past experiences an overall luck, I have the feeling I'm going to probably blow it or just prove to be not interesting or exciting enough for her and she'll probably just not want to meet. I've been trying really hard to not come off overly eager I've been using my natural ability for puns and word play and she seems to be into it. Yet, I'm just waiting for the other shoe to drop because my foot is going to be planted firmly in my mouth.

Any advice on how you are able to keep a conversation going without oversharing but not hiding important or violent information? Like I said, I'm being cautiously optimistic at this point, but I have a really good feeling about this person. We've been talking on and off for a few days and obviously nobody is emotionally invested in the other yet, but I just don't know how to naturally let my hopes up without welcoming a quick and devastating disappointment.



Submitted April 10, 2019 at 01:55AM

I've once again interdependent stage of online dating where I've initiated a conversation with somebody, but I have no idea how long it is until she loses interest in ghosts me. However, she hasn't lost interest yet And it's her profile pictures on Tinder RTB believed she's quite attractive. from what she's had to tell me so far, she plays bass guitar, she has 13 tattoos, And she likes a lot of the same TV shows that I like. If everything is legit so far, she definitely sounds like the kind of woman I've been desperately wanting to meet for quite some time.But, given my past experiences an overall luck, I have the feeling I'm going to probably blow it or just prove to be not interesting or exciting enough for her and she'll probably just not want to meet. I've been trying really hard to not come off overly eager I've been using my natural ability for puns and word play and she seems to be into it. Yet, I'm just waiting for the other shoe to drop because my foot is going to be planted firmly in my mouth.Any advice on how you are able to keep a conversation going without oversharing but not hiding important or violent information? Like I said, I'm being cautiously optimistic at this point, but I have a really good feeling about this person. We've been talking on and off for a few days and obviously nobody is emotionally invested in the other yet, but I just don't know how to naturally let my hopes up without welcoming a quick and devastating disappointment.
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