Did I read the situation wrong, did I deserve to get blocked from them?

Just had a first date on Sunday afternoon. I thought it went pretty good, nothing like sparks flying but we spent 3 & 1/2 hours together on the beach & walking in the park talking. At the end of the date, she even said "We should do this again, next time near you!" I came near where she lives... almost 50 miles away from my house. It felt like it was worthy to keep talking and texting to setup a second date. We are both 34.

She had read receipts from iMessage enabled. I sent her a text when getting home on Sunday taking her for the lovely time.

Monday morning I text her about just how I got sunburn from our time. No read receipt.

Wait until the evening and do a hand wave emoji. Read, no reply.

At this point, something just felt off, so I sent her a text saying, "It feels like you don't wanna continue, if that's the case just let me know and I won't bother you again"

Delivered; no read receipt.

Goto the dating app, conversation disappeared, and I'm able to figure out she blocked me on the dating app. (Random user can see her account, my account cannot) I think she blocked me after my 3rd text message of just a waving hand.

I feel like... ok what did I do that was wrong? What warranted me to get blocked? Should I just write this off as them as lying or not being upfront? They changed their mind and just suck at communicating? Do women just block guys when they are done with them?

I wouldn't mind or care if she didn't tell me "We should do this again near you!" Without me asking if we should do a second date. It felt bad to be on the receiving end of this. I already suck enough on dating, I suck at reading signs and I don't know if there is something I did or missed that caused them to change their mind like this.



Submitted April 09, 2019 at 10:15PM

Just had a first date on Sunday afternoon. I thought it went pretty good, nothing like sparks flying but we spent 3 & 1/2 hours together on the beach & walking in the park talking. At the end of the date, she even said "We should do this again, next time near you!" I came near where she lives... almost 50 miles away from my house. It felt like it was worthy to keep talking and texting to setup a second date. We are both 34.She had read receipts from iMessage enabled. I sent her a text when getting home on Sunday taking her for the lovely time.Monday morning I text her about just how I got sunburn from our time. No read receipt.Wait until the evening and do a hand wave emoji. Read, no reply.At this point, something just felt off, so I sent her a text saying, "It feels like you don't wanna continue, if that's the case just let me know and I won't bother you again"Delivered; no read receipt.Goto the dating app, conversation disappeared, and I'm able to figure out she blocked me on the dating app. (Random user can see her account, my account cannot) I think she blocked me after my 3rd text message of just a waving hand.I feel like... ok what did I do that was wrong? What warranted me to get blocked? Should I just write this off as them as lying or not being upfront? They changed their mind and just suck at communicating? Do women just block guys when they are done with them?I wouldn't mind or care if she didn't tell me "We should do this again near you!" Without me asking if we should do a second date. It felt bad to be on the receiving end of this. I already suck enough on dating, I suck at reading signs and I don't know if there is something I did or missed that caused them to change their mind like this.

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