Made my girlfriend cum for the first time

So I (30m) have been seeing my girlfriend (f22) for about 7 months now. In all that time she's never cum. She's been very open about the fact that she has never cum with a partner and very rarely by herself.

I've reassured her that I'm ok with that and that we can try anything she wants. I also never made it a point to try and make her cum to me sex is more than that. I myself have trouble cumming and have found, for me, that while that feels good it's not the end all and be all of sex. I'd rather have good sex where I dont cum then bad sex where I do.

But last week we were just in a groove and while fingering her and kissing/biting her breast she came. It was the sexiest thing ever. I could feel her shake in my hands and then starts pushing me away, I kept going. Which I will point out is something we've discussed and shes more than ok with. We have a safe word for that specific reason. Which she eventually used. She laid in the bead breathing heavily and was flush all over.

Since then she has cum at least once each time we've had sex.

I think a big thing that helped us is that we never made it a big deal. We never specifically chased an orgasm. We just try to have fun and whatever happened or didn't happened.



Submitted February 19, 2020 at 12:12AM

So I (30m) have been seeing my girlfriend (f22) for about 7 months now. In all that time she's never cum. She's been very open about the fact that she has never cum with a partner and very rarely by herself.I've reassured her that I'm ok with that and that we can try anything she wants. I also never made it a point to try and make her cum to me sex is more than that. I myself have trouble cumming and have found, for me, that while that feels good it's not the end all and be all of sex. I'd rather have good sex where I dont cum then bad sex where I do.But last week we were just in a groove and while fingering her and kissing/biting her breast she came. It was the sexiest thing ever. I could feel her shake in my hands and then starts pushing me away, I kept going. Which I will point out is something we've discussed and shes more than ok with. We have a safe word for that specific reason. Which she eventually used. She laid in the bead breathing heavily and was flush all over.Since then she has cum at least once each time we've had sex.I think a big thing that helped us is that we never made it a big deal. We never specifically chased an orgasm. We just try to have fun and whatever happened or didn't happened.
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