When GF is about to cum she pushes me away

My GF and I have been together about 1.5 years. She's never orgasmed with me.

Every time she gets close, she closes her legs and kinda nudges me away with her lower body. After the fact her legs sometimes twitch a little and she needs to roll over and close her eyes for a minute. It's not an orgasm but it's really close.

Problem is that I've tried talking to her about it and she gets extremely uncomfortable. I said if she's uncomfortable we can talk over text so that it's a little easier. But she absolutely won't open up to me. One time I even tried asking her over text (I've only brought this up maybe three times over a 1.5 year period). All she said was that I'm making her feel like there's something wrong with her, which I understand but I also kinda want to at least know what's going on.

I have a feeling that she's worried about something embarrassing happening when she orgasms. Like maybe she pooped once when she orgasmed and now she'll just never let it happen in front of another person again and she's too embarrassed to tell me that's the reason. Or maybe she squirts and is worried about that. Or maybe she like blacks out or doesn't like her body shaking? I don't know.

But how can I possibly get her to open up about this?



Submitted March 20, 2020 at 12:30AM

My GF and I have been together about 1.5 years. She's never orgasmed with me.Every time she gets close, she closes her legs and kinda nudges me away with her lower body. After the fact her legs sometimes twitch a little and she needs to roll over and close her eyes for a minute. It's not an orgasm but it's really close.Problem is that I've tried talking to her about it and she gets extremely uncomfortable. I said if she's uncomfortable we can talk over text so that it's a little easier. But she absolutely won't open up to me. One time I even tried asking her over text (I've only brought this up maybe three times over a 1.5 year period). All she said was that I'm making her feel like there's something wrong with her, which I understand but I also kinda want to at least know what's going on.I have a feeling that she's worried about something embarrassing happening when she orgasms. Like maybe she pooped once when she orgasmed and now she'll just never let it happen in front of another person again and she's too embarrassed to tell me that's the reason. Or maybe she squirts and is worried about that. Or maybe she like blacks out or doesn't like her body shaking? I don't know.But how can I possibly get her to open up about this?

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